Serial Monogamy, Superstitions In Dating, And Pre-Sex Sleepovers With Lucas O’Neil

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Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

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🗓️ 20 October 2019

⏱️ 55 minutes

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Summary

On this week’s episode, I sit down comedian Lucas O’Neil and we discuss his darkest comedy, dating an older woman, why pre-sex sleepover's are too intimate, when you can request each other on Instagram, and more. This episode starts with a solo part where I discuss how posting too much means you’re insecure, dropping friends, how to deal with being cheated on, why you shouldn’t text a guy after a date, and when you can critique sex.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a DR Media production.
0:06.2	Hey guys, welcome back to We Minute Acme. I just want to say thank you so much for all your
0:11.2	really interesting and helpful feedback on our last episode with Tanya. It's so, it means so much to
0:18.0	me to hear what you guys have to say and it's really super helpful. So thank you for that. Before
0:25.3	we get into this week's episode, which I'm really excited about and is a little bit different than
0:33.0	any other episode because it's essentially just my friends and I being ourselves and having a
0:40.1	conversation that we decided to record after a girl's dinner. I'm going to talk about the topics
0:46.0	that you guys wanted me to talk about. So one person talked about how well actually one person
0:53.5	out and they said that there was a study that proved that the more we post on Instagram, the more
0:58.8	insecure we are and that it's really linked to that. Whether it's insecure about our relationship or
1:04.2	insecure about ourselves and our bodies and whatever it is. And I couldn't agree more with that. I
1:10.0	actually know for a fact that at my height of insecurity, I was posting probably a different grid
1:18.1	photo every day and it's actually crazy because it doesn't matter what you look like. Insecurity
1:25.6	will just like get to you if you're not in a good place and you're not working and doing the steps
1:32.4	to really have that like core strength inside of you and truly believe in yourself and because I
1:39.3	look back on my most insecure times and points and I'm like, wow, I was on the outside. I looked
1:46.1	really good. I was, you know, what I would consider skinny and like, you know, tan whatever it is.
1:56.1	But on the inside, I was super, super insecure and I know for a fact that I was posting all the time
2:02.8	because I was sad and because I was insecure. And now, especially when I was in a relationship and
2:09.8	I would say pretty much every relationship more or less up until my current relationship with Max
2:17.6	was rocky and just like weird and as my therapist says, like a lot of the people I had dated were
2:26.0	only dipping a toe in. Like they weren't fully in the relationship and as a result, you know,
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