Self-Sacrifice Never Equals Goodness: Unpacking Sexual Shame, Pleasure, and Intimacy in Relationships with Dr. Lexx Brown-James
Badass Basic Bitch
Brianna Dunbar-DeMike
4.2 • 529 Ratings
🗓️ 2 December 2025
⏱️ 43 minutes
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| 0:00.0 | What's up, Badi Bees? |
| 0:11.8 | I'm Brianna, mom, wife, serial entrepreneur, and host of the badass basic bitch podcast. |
| 0:18.6 | Each week, I sit down with a seemingly ordinary woman who's doing |
| 0:23.3 | extraordinary things and I get to share her story with you. So let's go. Buckle up as we're going |
| 0:30.0 | to get real and dive into the shit nobody talks about. Welcome to the Batty B Club. |
| 0:40.4 | That's one of the reasons why it's fun, right? |
| 0:42.5 | If everybody is feeling good, it's fun. |
| 0:46.0 | When they think, like, the clitoris is a DJ booth that hurts. |
| 0:47.0 | It's not fun. |
| 0:49.1 | I would like you to stop that. |
| 0:51.8 | And so, one, you can stop it in the moment, absolutely. |
| 0:58.1 | And before we get to the moment, you can be like, ooh, hey, babe, just want to let you know. |
| 1:01.0 | I really, really love this type of touch. |
| 1:14.8 | Welcome back to another episode of Badass Basic Bitch. |
| 1:22.9 | On this week's episode, we have certified sex educator, bestselling author, and keynote speaker, Dr. Lex Brown James. She is passionate about helping others build, maintain, and get to that true relationship intimacy with hashtag shame-free sex. |
| 1:32.6 | And today we are going to be talking all about female pleasure, sexual shame, and how to heal from it, and navigating intimacy and female pleasure in relationships. |
| 1:43.4 | So Dr. Lex, thank you so much for being with us today. |
| 1:47.2 | Thank you so much for having me. I'm so happy to be here. And what a fun topic I feel like. |
| 1:51.9 | Not a lot of people talk about this because of the whole, it feels icky. It feels shameful. |
| 1:57.1 | And we're going to break that today. So before we get started, why don't you tell our listeners |
| 2:01.0 | a little bit more about who you are and what you do? Oh, absolutely. So Dr. Lex Schilles-Bay, |
| 2:07.5 | I she her pronouns, sometimes doctor, depending on where I am a sexologist. So I talk about |
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