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Join Up Dots -  Business Coaching Made Easy (With A Bit Of Life Coaching Too)

Self Sabotaging

Join Up Dots - Business Coaching Made Easy (With A Bit Of Life Coaching Too)

David Ralph of Join Up Dots

Interview, Motivation, Online, Businessinterview, Education, Businesscoaching, Entrepreneur, Lifestyle, Income, Business

51.1K Ratings

🗓️ 2 August 2022

⏱️ 17 minutes

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Summary

Are you a Self Sabotager? Of course you are going to say “No, why the hell would I want to do something that makes my situation worse” Well you would be surprised how many people unintentionally or sometimes intentionally do things to do just that. Breaking something in such a way that there is no way back from it, in effect freeing themselves from the issue. Self-sabotage is the act of subconsciously or intentionally getting in your own way. It’s not just a bad habit. It’s not just laziness or procrastination. Being a self-sabotager is something much deeper, and it often stems from a lack of self-knowledge and awareness. Or most commonly its when you want to get away from a situation and are unable to articulate this feeling. As you will hear on the podcast I have done this myself to spectacular effect and looking back on it could see exactly why I did it even though i was powerless to stop.

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0:00.0

Life shouldn't be hard. Life should be a fun-filled adventure every day, so now

0:05.7

start joining up dots. Tap into your talents, your skills, your god-given gifts,

0:11.1

and tell your boss, you don't deserve me. I'm out of here. It's time for you to

0:17.4

smash that alarm clock and start getting the dream business and life. You, well

0:24.3

of course, are dreaming of. Let's join your host David Ralph from the back of his

0:29.8

garden in the UK, or wherever he might be today, with another jammed pack episode of

0:35.4

the number one hit podcast, Join Up Dots. Yeah, good morning to you. Number one,

0:41.5

hit podcast. The man said it. The man said it, so it must be true. So how are you?

0:46.6

How are we doing in the world of the world? Wherever you are across the globe,

0:53.1

hopefully you're doing all right. Hopefully you're electricity and your gas isn't

0:57.0

shooting up and you're queuing up for petrol and gas and all the kind of

1:02.0

things that people are being bothered about. You know, my wife works in a pub and I

1:07.4

go down there and you can stand there with people going, oh god, it's so expensive.

1:11.7

Everything's so expensive. Oh, my round, I'll get another load in. And you think,

1:16.0

there's this money out there. It's just your priority. She's just looking at it as

1:20.9

as a way of moaning and groaning because other people are struggling. And it's a

1:25.7

key thing about this podcast episode. I'm going to do today. Yes. It's about looking

1:30.8

at life in a different way because I've had an interesting email. And when I read it,

1:35.6

I thought, oh, I know about this because I've done this myself. And I think lots of us

1:40.0

might have done this. So let's read out the email. But first, we're playing the jingle

1:46.0

because this is how I got the email. If you have a drop lump and need some help,

1:57.0

then simply drop us a line. You can either email scream or yell and everything

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