Self-sabotage is a myth.

It's not really sabotage, it's feedback to let you know you're pursuing something that's not really the very highest priority.

Because if you strive for that which is unobtainable and try to avoid that which is unavoidable,

you're going to feel disempowered because you can't do it.

The polarities are feedback mechanisms guiding us back to authenticity.

True self-worth is the synthesis and

synchronicity of the elevated and depressed self-esteem, the pride and the shames, the success

and the failures dictate your perception, decisions, and actions, and your identity revolves

around what you value most. You only react to people on the outside that represent a part

of you on the inside that you haven't owned.

And you only resent them because they're reminding you of something you feel ashamed about,

that you're hiding from yourself, and they're coming into your life to help you see it.

They're your teacher, not your enemy.

They're actually a guide for you to uncover the part of you that you haven't loved yet.

But we don't see it because we're trapped

in the moral hypocrisies and the polarities of the amygdala. At the level of the essence of the soul, nothing's missing. So I'm a whole being and I don't need to get rid of any part of myself or I don't need to find some part that I think is missing. It's not. It's there. Ryan Holidayiday has a book. Ego is the enemy. I disagree.

But what are your thoughts on the integration of the ego rather than the demonization of the ego?

If self-sabotage is a myth and we don't really sabotage ourselves, what is self-sabotage in your own vernacular?

Each individual lives by a set of priorities, a set of values, things that are most

the least important into it. Whenever they set goals and objectives that are aligned and

congruent with what they value most, which is their most intrinsic value.

They spontaneously act.

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