Self-Confidence if NOT Self-Worth with Jamie Kern Lima

Redefining Wealth with Patrice Washington

Patrice Washington

Self-improvement, Education:self-improvement, Education

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🗓️ 22 February 2024

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

Hey there Purpose Chasers! Today, we're diving deep into a conversation that's incredibly important for every high achiever out there: the distinction between self-confidence and self-worth. We've all met those go-getters who seem to ooze confidence from every pore (and maybe we’ve been that person, too…), but as we'll discover with our special guest Jamie Kern Lima, confidence doesn't always translate to feeling worthy on the inside.

Now, if you haven't heard of Jamie, you're in for a treat. She's not your average entrepreneur. We're talking about the mastermind behind IT Cosmetics, the trailblazer who became L’Oreal's first female CEO, and now, you can also find her on Forbes' Richest Self-Made Women List. And now Jamie's latest book, "Worthy," hits shelves this week, and it's a game-changer.

In our chat, Jamie's pulling back the curtain on why self-confidence isn't the whole story. We're getting real about how self-worth shapes every aspect of our lives, from the decisions we make to the relationships we keep.

So, whether you're on top of the world or feeling a bit lost, this episode is for you. Jamie's got some eye-opening insights about why embracing your worthiness is the key to unlocking a life filled with love, success, and genuine wealth and fulfillment.

Show Notes:

[2:51] - I am worthy of love just as I am.

[6:00] - In life, we don’t get what we want, we get what we think we are worthy of. Our self-worth is our ceiling.

[9:05] - Sometimes we make decisions based on our self-worth without even knowing it.

[13:07] - Self-confidence is based on the external. It fluctuates. It is how we assess our own skills and abilities.

[15:03] - It is important to be ambitious and have self-confidence, but you won’t enjoy any of this journey without self-worth.

[18:01] - Low self-worth shows up in three primary ways in your life.

[23:20] - Realizing a self-worth problem is a catalyst.

[27:02] - Valuing and building your self-worth is actually breaking generational cycles.

[29:30] - Ambition linked to authenticity is beautiful. But ambition linked to achievement will lead to burnout.

[32:31] - Even your relationships will be stronger when you know you are worthy.

[35:32] - We cannot exceed our level of self-worth.

[37:35] - We will continue to attract the amount of love from others that matches the love we have for ourselves.

[40:26] - Self-worth is the one thing that will transform your life.

[43:21] - Jamie is donating 100% of the proceeds of her book Worthy.

[47:18] - When we don’t believe we are worthy, we will self-sabotage.

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0:00.0	you realize like okay I might go for something and fall I might fail I might fall
0:04.4	flat on my face I might be embarrassed and that might shake my self-confidence a
0:08.7	little bit but it cannot touch my self worth. I'm Patrice Washington and this is the Redefining Wealth Podcast where authenticity leads to alignment and abundance.
0:32.0	Join us each week as we peel back the layers
0:34.4	on what wealth truly means,
0:36.4	and dive into conversations that inspire, connect,
0:39.6	and empower you to live your richest life.
0:42.0	Get ready to challenge the status quo. It's time to
0:45.2	redefine wealth for yourself.
0:49.2	You are listening to the Redefining Wealth Podcast with Patrice Washington.
0:55.5	This is the space that you come to each and every week to learn more about why we say
0:59.6	wealth is not just money and material possessions. While that is very important, there is no
1:05.0	wealth building without well-being and that's because the original 12th century
1:09.2	definition of wealth says wealth is the condition of well-being.
1:13.7	And so it makes sense that we are having a conversation today
1:17.2	about self-worth.
1:19.2	And this is for my high achieving folks
1:21.6	who think, oh, I have a lot of self-confidence I love that my
1:24.8	girl Jamie Kern Lima is here today to talk about the fact that self-confidence is
1:29.3	just not the same as self-worth you can be very accomplished and still have challenges with
1:34.9	your self-worth and it manifests in so many different ways. She says,
1:39.2	imagine what you do
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