Selective Ignorance: Ep. 61 | Adulting, Alleged Kinks & Akon's Science
Selective Ignorance with Mandii B
The Black Effect Podcast Network and iHeartPodcasts
4.4 • 3.5K Ratings
🗓️ 28 April 2026
⏱️ 109 minutes
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Summary
In this episode of Selective Ignorance, the hosts deliver a wide-ranging, culture-forward conversation unpacking AI, relationships, work culture, and identity in a rapidly evolving society. The episode begins with Mandii’s opening monologue, setting the tone with reflections on current events and shifting social dynamics [ 00:54 ], before diving into a candid discussion on sexuality and public figures, exploring how personal identity and private behavior intersect with public perception and scrutiny [ 10:10 ]. The conversation expands into cultural observations around race and identity, highlighting how societal norms continue to shape lived experiences and representation [ 20:06 ], before pivoting into forward-looking commentary on AI, automation, and predictions about the future of work [ 29:50 ].
The hosts break down the growing tension between traditional employment and the gig economy, examining how flexibility often comes at the cost of stability and long-term security [ 35:27 ], followed by a practical discussion on navigating taxes, benefits, and financial responsibility in a gig-driven workforce [ 41:16 ]. The conversation deepens with a critical look at the impact of AI on employment and society, questioning whether technological advancement truly benefits workers or primarily serves corporate efficiency [ 46:46 ]. From there, the tone shifts into more personal territory as the hosts explore kinks, boundaries, and communication in relationships, emphasizing the importance of understanding and respecting individual preferences [ 54:38 ].
The latter half of the episode focuses on personal growth and navigating modern relationships, including the influence of online personas like the DL Whisperer and how digital culture shapes perception and behavior [ 01:11:50 ][ 01:14:44]. The hosts also examine Akon’s controversial views on fatherhood and commitment, using them as a lens to discuss responsibility, masculinity, and evolving relationship standards [ 01:25:21 ]. The episode closes with a deeper reflection on the impact of patriarchy on relationships, unpacking how traditional gender roles continue to influence expectations, power dynamics, and emotional expression in modern partnerships [ 01:43:00 ].
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| 0:00.0 | This is an IHeart podcast. |
| 0:02.5 | Guaranteed human. |
| 0:04.4 | No gloss, no filter. |
| 0:07.4 | Just stories. |
| 0:09.1 | Spoken without fear. |
| 0:10.9 | Person who is not generous can not be an artist. |
| 0:13.8 | The world will be at peace only when it is ruled by poets and philosophers. |
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| 0:27.6 | Come for the honesty. |
| 0:29.2 | Stay for the fire. |
| 0:32.9 | Hey guys, welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. |
| 0:35.7 | However, before we get to this week's episode, I want to remind you guys to purchase my book, No Host Bard, a dual manifesto of sexual exploration and power. |
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| 1:02.2 | sexual exploration and power written by yours truly and my co-host of the Decisions Decisions |
| 1:07.3 | podcast, Weezy. Make sure y'all get that. Now let's get to this week's episode. |
| 1:12.2 | This is Mandy B. Welcome to Selective Ignorance, a production of the Black Impact Podcast Network and IHartRadio. |
| 1:17.8 | Welcome to another episode of Selective Ignorance. I'm your host, Mandy B. And boy, are we getting into mess of mess this week. |
| 1:29.2 | We're getting to a lot of things. |
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