Seeking Support from Your Tribe, Dealing with Insecurities, and Getting Over a Breakup | ASK ME ANYTHING
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9K Ratings
🗓️ 8 February 2023
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Shawn Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.
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SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(3:40) What are your thoughts on overcoming the shame cycle that you can experience when struggling with a habit you want to kick or a limiting belief you hold?
(15:30) Not a question but a best practice that has been impactful for bring my wife closer to me: If your spouse is a 'Words of Affirmation' partner (5 Love Languages), buy some small cards & write notes about why you love and appreciate them & hide them around the house for her to find at a later time. This has been a wonderful way for me to express my love to my wife and a nice surprise for her when she stumbles upon them.
(19:30) How do you get support and feedback from your tribe of men on deep private issues in your relationship while respecting the privacy of your girlfriend/wife and not exposing her personal stuff?
(28:00) I've read extreme ownership and the follow up book is on my book list, but what are some leadership courses or programs that you would recommend?
(33:30) How do you maintain your frame with your spouse, but at the same time, being humble and patient and kind.
(45:40) If you choose to put a man in your circle and he makes a mistake, is it your responsibility to hear him out?
(52:00) What would you say is your biggest insecurity or insecurities that you’re working on?
(58:50) How do you get over a breakup where you sacrificed everything for that person?
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| 0:00.0 | You're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. |
| 0:02.9 | Embrace your fears and boldly charge your own path. |
| 0:05.8 | When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time. |
| 0:09.1 | Every time you are not easily deterred or defeated. |
| 0:12.3 | Rugged, resilient, strong. |
| 0:15.0 | This is your life. This is who you are. |
| 0:17.6 | This is who you will become. |
| 0:19.3 | At the end of the day, and after all is said and done, |
| 0:22.3 | you can call yourself a man. |
| 0:24.6 | Sean, another episode of Ask Me Anything, how you doing, sir? |
| 0:29.0 | It is. I'm doing well. How are you? |
| 0:31.7 | Good. I'm digging the hat. |
| 0:34.5 | Thanks. That's like a Hawaiian version. |
| 0:38.2 | What's the logo though? |
| 0:40.2 | It's a Hawaiian flag, but it's got a little shock in the corner of it. |
| 0:44.9 | Yeah. Got it. |
| 0:45.8 | It's some golf. I never golf. |
| 0:49.8 | Monolani. We went to Monolani. |
| 0:52.0 | Where were we? Big Island, I think. |
| 0:54.4 | Okay. Isn't it last year? |
| 0:56.9 | Got it. Got it. I didn't have any clothes when we went. |
| 1:00.4 | I didn't have any golf clothes. |
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