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The Virtual Couch

Seeing is Believing? No, it’s the Other Way Around! Plus Many More Fascinating Facts About Our Minds w/Nate Christensen, APCC

The Virtual Couch

Tony Overbay LMFT

Education, Mental Health, Health & Fitness, Self-improvement

5643 Ratings

🗓️ 22 November 2021

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Nate Christensen, APCC, makes his record fourth appearance on The Virtual Couch to talk more about our minds and the stories they tell us to try and make sense of the world. Nate and Tony discuss several fundamental discoveries from Rick Hanson and Richard Mendius’ book The Buddha’s Brain: The Practical Science of Happiness, Love and Neuroscience https://www.amazon.com/Buddhas-Brain-Practical-Neuroscience-Happiness/dp/1572246952/ (https://www.amazon.com/Buddhas-Brain-Practical-Neuroscience-Happiness/dp/1572246952/) as well as Daniel Kahneman’s book Noise: A Flaw in Human Judgement https://www.amazon.com/Noise-Human-Judgment-Daniel-Kahneman/dp/0316451401/ (https://www.amazon.com/Noise-Human-Judgment-Daniel-Kahneman/dp/0316451401/)Take advantage today of the Relationship Mastery Pack that Tony mentioned on the episode https://www.epicmarriageclub.com/a/2147499720/h3Cn8yaE (https://www.epicmarriageclub.com/a/2147499720/h3Cn8yaE) Get thousands of dollars in relationship tools for one special Black Friday price featuring Tony's brand new parenting course: 3 Keys to Positive Parenting - Bring the Positivity without Messing Up Your Kids Even if You're Not Sure Where to Start! Go to https://www.epicmarriageclub.com/a/2147499720/h3Cn8yaE (https://www.epicmarriageclub.com/a/2147499720/h3Cn8yaE) to sign up for thousands of dollars worth of relationship tools for less than the cost of one therapy session.With the continuing "sheltering" rules spreading across the country, PLEASE do not think you can't continue or begin therapy now. http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch (http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch) can put you quickly in touch with licensed mental health professionals who can meet through text, email, or videoconference often as soon as 24-48 hours. And if you use the link http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch (http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch), you will receive 10% off your first month of services. Please make your mental health a priority, http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch (http://betterhelp.com/virtualcouch) offers affordable counseling, and they even have sliding scale options if your budget is tight. You can learn more about Tony's pornography recovery program, The Path Back, by visiting http://pathbackrecovery.com (http://pathbackrecovery.com/) And visit http://tonyoverbay.com (http://tonyoverbay.com/) and sign up to receive updates on upcoming programs and podcasts. Tony mentioned a product that he used to take out all of the "uh's" and "um's" that, in his words, "must be created by wizards and magic!" because it's that good! To learn more about Descript, click here https://descript.com?lmref=v95myQ (https://descript.com/?lmref=v95myQ)

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0:00.0

Hey, everybody, and take a seat on the virtual couch.

0:21.8

Hey, everybody, welcome to episode 296 of the virtual couch.

0:25.3

I am your host, Tony Overbay.

0:26.5

I'm a licensed marriage and family therapists and certified mindful habit coach and all those wonderful things.

0:30.3

And with me in studio today is your friend in mine, Nate Christensen.

0:34.6

Nate, welcome back to the virtual couch.

0:36.4

Thank you very much.

0:37.2

I appreciate the opportunity to be here again. Thank you very much. I appreciate

0:37.7

the opportunity to be here again. Is this your fourth? I think it is. You now, you win. Really?

0:42.3

You win the virtual couch. Well, Dr. Jennifer Finlinson vives, three. I think one of my daughters is three,

0:46.9

and I think you were the first four-time guest. Yes. Yeah, so I got you this fidget spinner. Thank you. Congratulations. My daughter thinks you as well. Yeah. And that one actually two out of the three spinners light up with an LED. And there is, I'm involved in a Black Friday sale, which is something I've never done before. I talked about it on last week's podcast, but I had Nate Bagley on, a world-renowned relationship

1:16.0

expert.

1:16.9

And Nate has a bundle of courses, and I was counting them showing off to Nate this morning.

1:21.9

I think there were 16 courses that people can get.

1:25.8

And the 16 courses are everything from overcoming perfectionism and

1:30.3

breaking generational cycles and self-guided couples, healing trust, all of these wonderful things.

1:36.2

And I am unveiling a brand new parenting course. And it is called, and I really thought

1:40.1

this was so clever. But when I'm reading it now, I'm so anti-shame and I worry that this comes with some shame, but I thought it was really clever at the time. So it's three keys to

1:48.1

positive parenting, and then here's the part that I think is clever, but I worry. Bring the

1:52.4

positivity without messing up your kids. And because we are all messing up our kids. And so I really

1:58.3

feel like I need to say without messing them up as much as you possibly could.

2:02.6

Yes. And I mean it funny, but not really. But I do.

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