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Seeing Other People

Seeing Each Other with Ilana & Jake

Seeing Other People

Ilana Dunn

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Mental Health, Social Sciences, Science

4.5608 Ratings

🗓️ 3 August 2021

⏱️ 66 minutes

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Summary

Backed by popular demand, Ilana’s boyfriend Jake is joining the show for a tell-all about their relationship. Ilana and Jake open up about how everything unfolded, starting with their Hinge meet-cute where Ilana didn’t respond, and followed by a “just fine” first date where the sparks were MIA.

They share how things progressed, why Ilana wasn’t anxious for the first time, and when and how they became official. We also hear their first fight go down as they debate some of these details. 

Ilana and Jake answer listener questions about pre-date nerves, timing, communication, what it’s like dating a "dating expert," how long it took to feel comfortable with each other, what Jake likes and doesn’t like about Ilana and more. Jake closes out the episode by begging you to please support his girlfriend by following @seeingotherpeople on IG, signing up for the Patreon, leaving 5-star reviews, and sending the podcast to your friends. 

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Transcript

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0:00.0

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0:05.5

com.uk-Uk slash Wondery. That's audible.combe.

0:09.6

This podcast is brought to you by Podcast Nation.

0:20.0

Hey, guys, it's Alana.

0:22.3

Hi, it's Jake.

0:23.5

You're listening to seeing other people.

0:26.5

To seeing each other.

0:27.8

We're seeing each other.

0:28.7

Yeah.

0:29.0

Oh my God.

0:29.4

So you're not seeing other people?

0:30.5

No.

0:31.4

Me either.

0:32.5

Are we defining the relationship right now?

0:34.3

This is us defining the relationship right now, yes.

0:37.1

Holy shit, we're

0:37.7

exclusive. We're exclusive. Guys, he likes me. Starting today. Right? You like me? I do. Oh my God.

0:45.3

Well, okay. So this is a different type of episode. I brought Jake on today. For those of you don't know,

0:53.6

Jake is my boyfriend. Though I think you know by now, which I have to clear up that like every time I say my boyfriend Jake in episodes, I'm not the type of girl who's always like my boyfriend this, my boyfriend, that. Like I don't want to be that type of girl, but I feel like I have to clarify who you are in case someone's listening for the first time,

1:11.2

you know? Yeah, I agree. I don't think you talk about me that much on the podcast at all. Okay. I feel like, I feel like, there's always missed moments. I'm always like, oh, she's about to mention when we did this. And then you're just like, he always texts me being like, you didn't say a word about me. You're like, you didn't talk about me at all. Yeah, it's true.

1:27.2

I mean, you have a dating podcast. you didn't talk about me at all. Yeah, it's true. I mean,

1:27.6

you have a dating podcast. I think we talk, we talk about our dating life. It's not about me. It's not the Alana show. I wish it was, but people aren't tuning in to hear about my life. That is fair. That could be a different podcast that we can start. Very fair. Would you want to host the I don't really care. It's totally cool not to not to be mentioned either.

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