Security is the Skeleton Key to Her Heart, Mind, and Body | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
Order of Man
Ryan Michler
4.8 • 9K Ratings
🗓️ 19 July 2024
⏱️ 20 minutes
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Summary
Reflecting on Ryan's journey from emotional turbulence to stability, this episode unpacks how making a woman feel safe and secure can transform a relationship. Ryan recounts his own battles with emotional volatility, particularly exacerbated by alcohol misuse, and the pivotal role of becoming a consistent, reliable partner. By grounding the relationship in emotional stability, the potential for deeper connections, shared joy, and adventurous experiences is unlocked.
The episode also touches on the interplay between emotional and financial stability, showing how these two elements are essential for a secure relationship. Emotional steadiness allows for open, honest communication, while financial security reduces stress and opens doors for future planning. Ryan dives into practical tips, like managing finances with disciplined strategies and cultivating marketable skills, to minimize financial strains and focus on what truly matters—your connection with your partner.
Finally, the episode explores actionable steps to build strength in a relationship from both a financial and personal standpoint. Using methods like Dave Ramsey's debt snowball, investing in personal development, and ensuring physical and emotional protection are key. Ryan discusses the importance of fitness, situational awareness, and even self-defense training to become your partner's rock. Join him as he maps out a path to becoming the partner you aspire to be, offering insights and strategies that are both practical and transformative.
SHOW HIGHLIGHTS
(00:00) - Episode Intro
(00:50) - Building Emotional Stability in Relationships
(04:27) - Emotional Stability and Financial Security
(10:55) - Building Strength in Relationships
(18:36) - Creating Safety and Security in Relationships
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| 0:00.0 | There was a point in my life where I was broke. I was worried about how I was going to make the next mortgage payment. |
| 0:06.4 | I mean, don't tell me that that's not going to negatively impact the credibility, faith, and trust that your wife has in you. |
| 0:14.6 | But if she knows, hey, you know what, Ryan's got it, Steve's got it, Joe's got it. |
| 0:19.6 | We're going to be prudent and smart with our money, but I'm not worried about whether or not I spend |
| 0:24.0 | 500 or seven hundred dollars on grocery all of that stuff is taken care of |
| 0:28.2 | man what a beautiful thing |
| 0:32.1 | you're a man of action. You live life to the fullest. |
| 0:35.0 | Embrace your fears and boldly charge your own path. |
| 0:38.0 | When life knocks you down, you get back up one more time, every time. |
| 0:42.0 | You are not easily deterred or defeated, rugged, resilient, strong. |
| 0:47.0 | This is your life, this is who you are, this is who you will become at the end of the day and after all is said and done you can call yourself a man. |
| 0:57.0 | I talked with dozens of men every single week who are trying to rebuild and rekindle a relationship with their spouse or maybe they're trying to establish a new healthy relationship with a woman. |
| 1:09.0 | Regardless of the situation they're in, there's one thing that I've found and determined over my own |
| 1:15.0 | personal experience, some good and some bad, and after listening to |
| 1:18.8 | thousands and thousands of men that I believe is going to help you unlock access to her heart, to her mind, and to her body. |
| 1:29.0 | And that is learning how to make her feel safe and secure. |
| 1:33.2 | It's not always a simple thing to do. |
| 1:35.8 | It's not always easy or convenient, |
| 1:38.7 | but I'm telling you guys, if you really want to develop |
| 1:41.5 | a deep, meaningful, and significant relationship with your wife or |
| 1:45.7 | significant other, then you're going to have to learn how to keep her safe and secure. |
| 1:50.3 | I think outside of every other factor that comes into a healthy relationship if you can do that it |
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