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Beyond the Secret

Secret 002: My Husband and I Share a Girlfriend!

Beyond the Secret

Ace Fanning

Society & Culture

4.91.6K Ratings

🗓️ 5 September 2018

⏱️ 26 minutes

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Summary

Secret 002:  My Husband and I Share a Girlfriend

After a conversation about how many relationships end because of infidelity, a happily married couple decide to address the issue head on and pursue dating within their marriage.  She shares with Ace how their efforts have enriched their marriage, and what the process has looked like from their initial attempts to their current dynamic with their shared girlfriend.

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0:00.0

Just a heads up in case you didn't already know.

0:03.1

Pretty much every single episode has adult content on it

0:06.2

and we talk about adult things.

0:08.0

So if your kids are around, put your headphones in,

0:11.0

give them their iPad, or just ignore them like you usually do.

0:15.4

Just a note, the audio at the beginning of this interview is not the best, but it got better

0:20.4

throughout the interview. I'll keep you my dirty little secret.

0:25.0

Don't tell you one or and I am just my regular nosy self. This week's secret, me and my husband

0:47.0

have a girlfriend that we share and honestly our lives are more amazing because of it.

0:51.2

Was a secret that didn't get a lot of questions, but more so a lot of statements.

0:56.5

Statements from people saying that they could never do the same and that their jealousy is way too big.

1:02.7

So I thought this was the perfect person to talk to.

1:06.0

Okay, so my first question that I have to know about this entire thing

1:11.5

is how did this all come about?

1:15.6

Well, first off, me and my husband are best friends.

1:20.0

So we do the whole like once a month, kind of stay up late watching movies just you know just kind of reconnecting and I don't really know what movie we were watching but a couple was fighting and he kind of has a lot of parental problems and my parents

1:37.0

have been married forever and we just kind of started slowly talking about how we really don't know not one single couple that's never cheated on each other.

1:46.0

Whether it's physical contact, emotional contact, just texting every day, and we kind of wanted to cut that out because we've dated when we were younger and we kind of found our way back

1:59.6

So we just kind of slowly talking about, you know, how would we do this?

2:04.6

Like, would it be something that we would want to do?

2:07.7

Is it something experimental?

2:10.3

Well, I'm bisexual.

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