Second Helpings: Sending Signals With Cutlery, Partying in Art Galleries, Flushing Without Permission, and More
Were You Raised By Wolves?
Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
4.7 • 1.8K Ratings
🗓️ 7 April 2025
⏱️ 44 minutes
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Summary
Etiquette, manners, and beyond! This week, Nick and Leah are enjoying a well-deserved break, but they'll be back soon with an all-new episode. In the meantime, here's one of their favorite episodes from the archives in which they tackle sending signals in restaurants with cutlery, going to art gallery openings, flushing dog poop down toilets, and much more. Please follow us! (We'd send you a handwritten thank-you note if we could.)
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EPISODE CONTENTS
- AMUSE-BOUCHE: Signals you can send with your cutlery
- A QUESTION OF ETIQUETTE: Art galleries
- QUESTIONS FROM THE WILDERNESS: How do I break the news to my sister and best friend that I can't attend their weddings? What do I do about a group gift that's going over budget? How do I stop my friend who is flushing dog poop down my toilet?
- VENT OR REPENT: Unexpected houseguests, Asking for receipts
- CORDIALS OF KINDNESS: Happy anniversary, A nice review
THINGS MENTIONED DURING THE SHOW
- Incorrect Table Etiquette Infographic
- Breakfast TV (Toronto): "Can you read this cutlery etiquette language?"
- Naoshima, Japan
- Mona (Museum of Old and New Art) in Hobart
- Venice Biennale
- NY Times: "How Not To Look Like A Dope In an Art Gallery" (1997)
- EPA "Pick Up After Your Pet" Brochure (PDF)
- NYC Department of Sanitation Dog Laws
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CREDITS
Hosts: Nick Leighton & Leah Bonnema
Producer & Editor: Nick Leighton
Theme Music: Rob Paravonian
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| 0:00.0 | Hey there, it's Nick. And it's Leah. Real quick thing before we get going, Leah, do you know about |
| 0:04.3 | Wolves Plus? I do, but let's pretend I don't for this for our audience. So Wolves Plus, |
| 0:11.5 | and we say it the French way, because it sounds fancier, is this new thing that we offer on Apple |
| 0:16.1 | podcasts. So you can get an ad-free version of our show that also helps support us. And you can do that right now in the app. |
| 0:23.4 | So go find our show and click on Wolves Plus, if you want to be all American about it, and check it out. |
| 0:29.5 | Wolves Plus. And now let's start the show. Hey there, it's Nick. And it's Leah. Real quick thing before we get |
| 0:36.9 | going, we are on a break this week. We're doing spring break. Spring break. But we wouldn't leave you empty handed. So we found the perfect episode from the archives just for you. And this one is a way, way back. It is, but here's the thing. In this amuse-boosh, the thing we discuss is still a problem. We have not solved this. bring me the complaints book. That's so funny. When I re-listened the episode, that was my thought. I was like, I bet Nick has still worked up about this thing. It just came up. Yes, I just got an email from somebody, which is like, do you know about this? I'm like, yes. Yes, I know about this. It's fake. Internet hoax. Do not listen to that. No. Yeah. Oh, it's so maddening. So that's in this episode. I also wish, as a side note, that we could get that. Yes, I know about it on tape that could actually go back with an email. You know what I mean? There's like a reply that that would. Oh, I wouldn't even have to respond to the email. I'll just attach that audio file. |
| 1:28.6 | Yes, yes. |
| 1:29.8 | Well, here's the thing. |
| 1:30.7 | It will come up again and I will be able to capture that in the future. I'm sure it will come up again. Oh, it's maddening. Also, this is a really fun... I feel like Nick and I have done more than you would think about flushing toilets and dog poo. |
| 1:44.5 | And this episode, we've done a lot. |
| 1:47.2 | We've done a lot. more than you would think about flushing toilets and dog poo and this episode. |
| 1:46.2 | We've done a lot. |
| 1:47.3 | We've done a lot. |
| 1:48.7 | Brinks them both together. |
| 1:50.0 | That's true. |
| 1:50.5 | Yes. |
| 1:50.7 | There is a synergy. |
| 1:52.0 | Yes. |
| 1:52.7 | We do have a question that does combine bathrooms and dog poop together. |
| 1:57.5 | Yes. |
| 1:58.3 | Yeah, we really do bring that together. |
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