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Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

Second Guessing the Break Up

Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast

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Christianity, Religion & Spirituality, Talk Radio, Default

4.8 • 808 Ratings

🗓️ 11 March 2025

⏱️ 33 minutes

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Summary

Katie comes to talk to me today about a breakup that she's second guessing. We processed why she broke up with him, and then talk through some of her regrets. What happens when you look back and realize you might have made a mistake in breaking up? Where do you go from there? How do you know whether or not it was the right decision? This episode is powerful for anyone who can relate to second-guessing yourself after a breakup.  You can also watch the full episode on YouTube. Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast Extras: The Debra Fileta Counselors Network: Book a counseling session at the Debra Fileta Counselors Network and get started on your healing journey from the inside out TODAY!  DEBRA FILETA is a Licensed Professional Counselor, national speaker, bestselling author, relationship expert, and founder of the Debra Fileta Counselors Network. She's written seven books including Choosing Marriage,True Love Dates, Love In Every Season,Are You Really OK?, Married Sex, RESET, and Soul Care. She's also the host of Talk To Me: The Debra Fileta Podcast (formerly the Love + Relationships Podcast) where she facilitates on-air authentic counseling-style sessions. Her popular relationship advice blog, TrueLoveDates.com, reaches millions of people with the message of healthy relationships. Connect with her on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter or book an online session with her or someone from her team today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

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Because you spend like so much time together and like I'm kind of a talker.

0:10.0

So I would kind of share things going on my life, things going on my job.

0:15.0

And he was like super supportive of that.

0:18.0

That's probably the part where I like second guess the most, more so than

0:24.5

anything else, is that. And I like can constantly like have to remind myself of the specific

0:34.4

reasons as to why I ended the relationship.

0:41.5

And I tried to like remind myself, I couldn't go based on like the potential and the like thought of like,

0:46.9

oh, what this could be if this was different.

0:50.2

Right.

0:51.0

But I still find it pretty difficult because we were very good friends

1:00.9

are you ready to talk to me my name is deborah philada and i'm a licensed professional

1:07.6

counselor national speaker and author through my blog my blog, books, and podcast,

1:13.0

I have the privilege of helping millions of people get healthy mentally, emotionally, spiritually,

1:18.3

and relationally. The purpose of this podcast is to have on-air, authentic, counseling-style

1:25.4

sessions where we talk about how people are really doing and give my guests

1:30.2

and callers an opportunity to talk to me as a licensed professional counselor. Each of these episodes

1:36.5

is meant to show you that we are all on the journey of healing, mentally, emotionally,

1:42.5

spiritually and relationally, together.

1:45.8

None of us are immune to the challenges and struggles of life, but we don't have to walk

1:52.4

this path alone.

1:54.2

I'm so proud and honored to be having these conversations with men and women who are

1:59.4

courageously paving the way for open and honest

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