Second Date

If there's a cute girl and she's on a dating app, you can imagine she's probably being hit on by, what, 100 guys a day?

Oh, either.

200 guys a day?

Yeah.

Even just not a dating app, if you're like on social media, you're cute.

Yeah.

Or just 200 DMs from Jose alone. Yeah. By the way, reply back. I know you see it. You know it's going to be a lot. Jose, I mean, in your experience, how do you cut through to make yourself stand out from all the other guys? Like, what do you say? You say, like, oh, I think I found your wallet? No. That's actually a good idea. I actually like that. Dude. I found something that works. I'm really basic. I have a blue check mark. So people just tend to be like, oh, who are you? I still don't know who I am. You can just say hi, look at my blue check mark. No, I'm just like, hi, I just want you to know you're beautiful.

And then most girls will go, thanks, leave me alone.

Okay.

So it's working.

Yeah, well, they respond.

Well, apparently something worked on one of our listeners that made a guy stand out to her.

And now she's on the phone with us looking to get back in touch with him.

Her name's Ashley.

Ashley, how you doing? Hey, I'm good. How are you? I think I found your wallet, by the way. Would you like it back? You can keep it. Oh, my God. That one did work. I'm so curious what this guy said to get your attention. What's his name? His name's Benjamin. Benjamin, did he have a blue checkmark? We have to ask. Well, I didn't meet him like on says to me. I met him on a dating app. Oh, that's right. I have to get Instagram. My bad. So what did what did he do to stand out from everybody else? So basically he was talking about how like, oh, I'm so beautiful. There's no embryo. I'm like, you've got to be a catfish.

And so we FaceTime, like, immediately. It's like, it's like reverse psychology. Yeah. Like, and then you want to prove to him, no, I am real. See, look at my boobs. That's pretty stereotypical guys stuff. Touch him. No, they're not. Feel him. Kind of nagging you and baiting you into, I don't know, basically talking to him. Yeah. It's almost like being like, I don't even want you to reply to this. Yeah. Okay. I guess I'm too competitive. So I was immediately like, oh, a challenge accepted.

Okay.

Dude, that's crazy that you FaceTime right away. That is crazy. What did he look like? He's really cute. He's tall. He's got dark hair, blue eyes, like all the things I'm into. Okay. Okay. So that's good. And you know, he's real, too. What did you guys do for a date? we decided to go to a bar and it was great

we had a good time but so And you know he's real too. What did you guys do for a date? We decided to go to a bar.

All right. And it was great. We had a good time. But so one thing happened, it was like kind of embarrassing, but I don't think he was really upset by it. But we're sitting there talking, like, we've been on the date for 30 minutes at this point. Okay. And one of my girlfriends came into the bar and she came over to say hi. and I completely forgot his name.

Oh, no.

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