Second Date Update.

A guy named Chris wrote us saying he's made a rule to never ask a woman out ever again.

Really?

Wow.

Wait, is it after whatever happened that he's on the phone with us for before?

I'm just reading this from his email.

But Chris explained he learned a new strategy from a video that he saw where if you're a guy and you say, hey, would you like to go out to dinner with me on Saturday night?

Yeah.

You're already putting yourself at a disadvantage right there.

Why?

Because in the woman's mind, she's thinking, if I say yes, then I'm doing him a favor.

And he's going to end up having a great night because of me.

Wait, she's not thinking, wow, I'm really excited to yes. And get a free meal? Yeah, she's thinking free meal. She's thinking. Sorry, I was being more nice, Alexis. We're going beyond the meal. She's thinking, if I say yes, then I'm giving him the gift of spending time with me. If I say no, then this loser has nothing going on in his life.

He is going to spend the entire nothing going on in his life.

He is going to spend the entire evening all alone in his apartment watching Netflix and eating old

pizza. I don't know that that's, I don't think that's how women think. Even if that's not true,

that's what he says. That's what a lot of women think. So instead, he uses a different strategy that makes him look really, really good when he asked people out. I want to know what it is. I love when men say what women think. It's so cute. Okay, continue. Well, let's talk to Chris about this and see what it's all about. Chris, how you doing, man? Hey, good, man. How are you? I'm very curious to learn what the

strategy is. Wait, is the strategy something you came up with, or is this also from the video that

Jeff referenced? No, I learned on an Instagram video, but I am telling you it works 90% of the

time. It's a fantastic little trick here.

Okay.

So you don't ask a woman, hey, do you want to go out to dinner with me?

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