Second date update.

You know, I honestly wasn't sure if this was a second date update or a misconnection.

Because apparently these two have crossed paths more than once in the past.

Oh, cool.

Which just goes to show you.

Either one, it was meant to be.

Yes.

Or two, when you're in the single scene for a while, you're going to keep running into the same desperate people over and over again until you settle. It's like a close. The pool isn't as deep as you would hope. We'll find out which one it is when we talk to Caitlin, who emailed us for some help today. Caitlin, welcome to the show. Hi, how are you? I'm doing okay. How are you doing?

Good. So tell us about the guy that you want us to call today. What's his name? Oh my gosh. His name is

Chase and we met online. Yeah, it is ironic. That's a good point. All right. So you met him

online. And when you say you met him, are you talking about the first time you guys met? Because Jeffrey said that you kept running into each other. Okay, so that's kind of the weird thing. He kind of threw me when we were chatting and his opening line is, hey, remember me? We were matched like a year ago and then you just flew me off. Oh, I've actually had those. You ghosted him?

Honestly, I can't even remember, but I do get matched with a lot of people.

And so maybe he just flipped through the cracks.

Oh, yeah.

Got lost in the fold of hundreds and hundreds of matches that are coming after you.

It almost seems like kind of passive aggressive.

Like remember me, you blew me off.

Yeah, you know. Yeah. Like remember me, you blew me off. Yeah, because I remember.

Yeah.

Like he's been holding on to some grudge for a long time.

But you didn't take it that way?

No.

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