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Modern Love

Season Premiere: One Man's Trash

Modern Love

The New York Times

Love, New York Times, Nytimes, Essay, Loss, Storytelling, Society & Culture, Redemption, Nyt

4.39K Ratings

🗓️ 1 June 2022

⏱️ 21 minutes

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Summary

When Mike Rucker and his partner, John, moved in together, they purchased a sofa they affectionately named Miss Bee. “I didn’t just feel grown up buying this sofa, I felt sophisticated,” Mike wrote in his Modern Love essay. Miss Bee had low arms, wooden legs with brass wheels and a white denim slipcover. Miss Bee was not only a provider of comfort, but also the anchor of Mike and John’s home life. For our season premiere, we listen to Mike’s story about the process of saying goodbye to Miss Bee — and the role she played for him in grieving John’s death. Then, Mike joins our host, Anna Martin, in the studio. He reflects on some of the other physical objects that continue to keep John alive for him. Modern Love is back for the summer: For the next 10 weeks, we’ll be releasing episodes about love in all its messy, complicated forms — including stories about star-crossed lovers in their 60s, the best nanny in all of New York City and an adoptee who overturns her assumptions about her mother. New episodes drop on Wednesday afternoons.

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0:00.0

Love now and do you fall in love?

0:06.0

Love is stronger than anything.

0:08.0

I feel the love.

0:09.0

And I love you more than anything.

0:12.0

You're smart.

0:14.0

From the New York Times, I'm Anna Martin.

0:18.0

This is Modern Love and I gotta tell you, I am in a really great mood, like a really good mood.

0:26.0

Because today we're kicking off a whole new season of the show and you're going to meet some incredible people,

0:35.0

like Star Crossed Lovers in their 60s.

0:38.0

I basically hadn't dated in 25 years.

0:43.0

So I'm like really rusty.

0:45.0

A daughter on the brink of discovering the truth.

0:49.0

And he found a file that was labeled Yvonne's adoption.

0:54.0

A boyfriend who really messed up and knows it.

0:57.0

This is a mistake.

1:02.0

And the very best nanny in all of New York City.

1:06.0

What was your popular dinner that I would make you all the time?

1:10.0

It's a little bit of a shame.

1:12.0

And what will we listen to when we ate?

1:14.0

Get it, yes.

1:16.0

All of that is coming up this season.

1:20.0

But today we're going to meet a man who doesn't understand his own feelings until he decides to get rid of his couch.

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