Season 9 Episode 16: Attachment Theory

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 27 November 2019

⏱️ 67 minutes

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Join us as we chat with Lauren Korshak MFT about attachment styles and how they play into our adult dating patterns. We talk about the different styles, how they factor into the ups and downs of dating, and why even the most secure people feel insecure sometimes. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls
0:04.8	one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything
0:11.2	from sex parties to sex dreptts, date fails to diaper fetishes,
0:14.8	and first moves to first loves. I'm your host U.S.U. former dating coach turned
0:19.3	dating sociologist. You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craftchick as we explore this crazy
0:26.0	dateable world.
0:27.0	Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of
0:33.3	Datable, a show all about modern dating. And when we talk about modern
0:37.2	dating, I like talking about psychology too, the theories behind why we are
0:41.6	the way we are in relationships.
0:43.8	Something we don't talk about and also something you don't learn in school, which hello, why?
0:48.6	Why that something you don't learn in school?
0:50.3	You like learn about math, which I never use really but then attachment styles is what we're talking about today is something that could have been very helpful to me 10 years ago
0:59.0	Totally still today too so we've got an expert here in the house. Her name is Lauren. She's in
1:04.4	her 30s. She's been in San Francisco for 10 years. Originally from LA. She's a
1:08.6	licensed marriage and family therapist plus meditation teacher in
1:12.2	San Francisco.
1:13.0	I feel like if you're a marriage and family therapist,
1:15.4	you probably should meditate at the same time.
1:17.7	Like, I feel like they go hand in hand.
1:20.0	She's passionate about helping men, women,
1:21.9	and couples level up their love lives through
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