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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Season 8 Episode 2: Gold Standard

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 27 February 2019

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

Caroline tells us about her first love that made such an impression on her that no one else can ever live up to it. We discuss why some people make such an impact, different types of love at different stages of life, and how to prevent living in the past in order to move forward. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast features real stories from real people of how they make modern dating work or not.

0:05.8

Each episode will not only offer you a new perspective on dating, but will also change the way you date.

0:11.8

I'm your host, U.A.

0:13.0

former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

0:15.6

You'll also hear commentary from my producer Julie Kraftchik and other surprise co-host. host.

0:30.0

Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of Datable, a show all about modern dating. We want to talk about the gold standard.

0:32.9

First I want to define what the gold standard is,

0:35.0

and then I will introduce our guest.

0:37.1

The gold standard is that first boyfriend or girlfriend

0:40.5

you had you were madly in love with

0:42.2

that nobody else can ever live up to. Maybe you had you were madly in love with that nobody else can ever live up to.

0:44.3

Maybe you had this gold standard 20, maybe you were 12.

0:47.8

It could run the gamut.

0:49.8

To be 40.

0:50.8

Maybe 40.

0:51.8

Or maybe you just haven't had it yet.

0:53.0

Yeah.

0:54.0

But the gold standard is someone who you really fell deeply in love with or your definition of love

1:01.0

who made such an impression on you that no one else subsequently can really

1:06.2

compare to that love. Or at least that's how I define it, but we have Caroline here today

1:10.9

who is our guest here to talk about her gold standard. Okay let me just

1:15.0

give you a little intro of who she is. She's 35 years old, lived in San Francisco for five years,

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