The dateable podcast features real stories from real people of how they make modern dating work or not.

Each episode will not only offer you a new perspective on dating, but will also change the way you date.

I'm your host, U.A.

former dating coach turned dating sociologist.

You'll also hear commentary from my producer Julie Kraftchik and other surprise co-host.

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Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of Datable, a show all about modern dating. So we have one of our most controversial episodes ever on the season. It was episode 3 called

PSA to Women. It featured a man named Leon and he wanted to tell all women how some men like him thought about women and dating and how to get women to sleep with him.

So he had very good intentions of coming on the show and spreading this PSA.

But we received so many emails and Instagram comments and whispers in our years as we're walking down the street saying I now want to be a

lesbian after listening to that show.

The tactics were definitely a little rough I would say. I don't know what the right word is but you know what's so

funny so we have Ali here I'm gonna introduce her in a second but we had a few

people comment and say why did you and Julie not like have a bigger reaction to what

Leon was saying. Honestly I think I was in shock for a lot of what he was saying because I think after Leon left the show we had

this very honest discussion Julie and I was like I actually don't think men think

like this no I think that's like a very small cohort of men do men think

like this. I think that's like a very small cohort of men who do and they I think of him as like a very New York kind of guy

and you're trying to date women in different boroughs, but I don't actually think men and San Francisco think like that.

I think like I was talking to a friend and her husband and we started listening to the episode.

He was like, I have never thought this

calculated about anything in my life and like yeah it's so calculated yeah so I

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