Season 6 Episode 6: The List

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 28 March 2018

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

Kirra tells us about her project, The List, where she interviews and photographs all the women her friend “K” has slept with to paint a picture of him through the eyes of his former lovers. We discuss your own perceptions vs. how others see you, the impact of every sexual encounter, and how to grow from your experience. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast features real stories from real people of how they make modern dating work.
0:06.3	Or not? I'm your host, U.A. former dating coach turned dating insider, if you will.
0:12.8	On each episode, you'll hear commentary
0:14.6	from my producer Julie Craftchick
0:16.8	and other surprise co-hosts.
0:19.7	This episode is brought to you by Together,
0:21.9	a podcast and online magazine that provides tools for better
0:25.1	relationships.
0:26.1	While it's important to navigate dating and early relationships, what happens 10, 20, 30 years
0:32.2	down the road.
0:33.0	Listen to stories from real people who have put in the work to form amazing partnerships.
0:38.0	Visit together. guide or listen to the podcast on iTunes and all major podcast apps.
0:49.0	Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of Datable, a show all about modern dating.
0:55.5	Here's a question for you guys. How many people have you slept with? Think of a number, uh-huh.
1:00.7	And then of those people that you've slept with, how many of them would say that you
1:06.2	were a fantastic lover? Okay, you have a number in mind? Okay, just kidding, I don't really
1:11.7	care, but today we do want to talk about the influence
1:16.8	that you may have had on the people you've had sex with.
1:20.8	A lot of times when we talk about our number, how many people we've slept with, we think about it from our perspective.
1:27.0	Oh, I really enjoyed my time with this person or I don't remember this person's first name when I woke up the next morning.
1:34.0	But now we're flipping it and thinking about the other way around.
1:38.0	How would they describe you?
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