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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Season 4 Episode 13: The Support Male

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 10 May 2017

⏱️ 265 minutes

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Summary

Don discusses changing male gender roles and being a ‘support’ male in a city filled with independent, alpha females. We talk about men’s career ambition vs being a stay-at-home dad, the recognition for a family man, and knowing the values you want. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The Datable Podcast is hosted by me, I'm U.A. A former dating coach in New York turned active dater in San Francisco.

0:14.0

On each episode you'll hear commentary by my producer Julie Kraftchick

0:18.4

and other surprise co-host.

0:20.0

This episode of Datable is brought to you by 500 Brunches.

0:24.0

500 Brunches connects like-minded people with similar interests to meet in real life over

0:29.1

brunch.

0:30.1

You answer a quick questionnaire about your interests and how you spend your time, and then

0:34.0

they'll match you in small groups of 6 to 8 at a brunch spot in San Francisco.

0:39.1

Get a free entry into a brunch now by signing up at 500branches.com and using the code a Hey everyone. Welcome to another episode of Datable, a show that opens up a can of conversation

0:56.5

about dating in today's world called Modern Dating.

1:01.0

I have a guest host with me today. His name is Boris.

1:04.0

Hello, Boris.

1:06.0

He's been in San Francisco for six years,

1:08.0

originally from Boston. He's in his early 30s, and he is married happily married and our guest tonight is

1:16.0

dawn hey Don how are you I'm good happy to be here he spent in San Francisco for six years, originally from Sonoma County, so not too far.

1:27.9

And you're 35 years old.

1:29.5

Don, I know a little bit about what you want to talk about today but I'm so excited

1:33.8

about this topic because before Boris's episode with Kate he and I had this very

1:39.4

intense discussion about gender roles how it plays into dating, how the alpha and the

1:46.1

beta should get along and also like who should pay for dates, who's responsible for

1:51.5

dates, etc. I should say that we didn't agree on anything.

1:54.0

We did not agree on a single thing.

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