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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Season 4 Episode 10: The System

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Social Sciences, Sexuality, Science, Health & Fitness, Society & Culture, Relationships

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 19 April 2017

⏱️ 168 minutes

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Summary

Jenny walks us through her system of dating multiple people at once now that she is back in the dating scene after being married. We discuss dating strategies, how your perspective changes once you have a child, and why marriage isn’t always the ultimate goal. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0

The Datable Podcast is hosted by me, I'm U.A. A former dating coach in New York turned

0:09.3

active dater in San Francisco. On each episode you'll hear commentary by my producer Julie

0:14.8

Kraft Chick and other surprise co-host. This episode of Datable is brought to you

0:19.4

by 500 Brunches. 500 Brunches connects like-minded people with similar interests to meet in real life over

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brunch.

0:27.3

You answer a quick questionnaire about your interests and how you spend your time, and then

0:31.2

they'll match you in small groups of 6 to 8 at a brunch

0:34.1

spot in San Francisco. Get a free entry into a brunch now by signing up at 500

0:39.7

branches.com and using the code dateable.

0:43.0

Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of Datable, a show all about dating in San Francisco.

0:52.0

On each episode we open up... a show all about dating in San Francisco.

0:53.0

On each episode, we open up a candid conversation

0:56.6

about dating.

0:57.8

And today, we're about to get real, I have a feeling.

1:01.4

Because Jenny is staring at me and she's like,

1:05.0

I'm dying to tell you a story.

1:08.0

I don't know what it is.

1:09.0

I can't wait to hear it, girl,

1:11.0

but let me give some stats about who you are.

1:13.6

Jenny's in her 30s she's been in San Francisco for five years.

1:17.4

She's in a relationship but also dating at the same time. So. And technically married, yeah. And technically, okay, yeah, I saw that too. So you're technically married, also in a relationship and dating at the same time. Yes. You're just covering all bases. I am. So I have a

1:34.7

system and I think that's what maybe you're alluding to. Yeah and so systems are things that I think a lot of people

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