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Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Season 3 Episode 8: Married with Options

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness, Social Sciences, Science

4.7910 Ratings

🗓️ 19 October 2016

⏱️ 40 minutes

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Summary

Ben and Kate talk about being polyamorous while married to one another. They talk about the differences compared to open relationships, how they got started in polyamory, and their guidelines for dating other people while still together. WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

Transcript

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0:00.0

The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls

0:05.0

one the top 10 podcast about love and sex. I'm your host U.S. Schu, former dating coach turned a dating sociologist.

0:12.3

You'll also hear from my co-host Julie Kraftchik.

0:15.2

On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything. From sex parties to sex droughts,

0:20.4

date fails to diaper fetishes, and first moves to first loves.

0:24.0

We are excited you've joined us for an older episode.

0:27.0

While our earlier seasons were all about dating in San Francisco,

0:30.0

we quickly realize all the themes and learnings are universal for all

0:33.8

daters so we shifted to covering dating from all around the world as the

0:37.6

seasons progress. The fun part is things happen for us in San Francisco, the

0:41.4

tech epicenter and counterculture capital of the world. We love for you to keep

0:45.2

tuning in to our older episodes but there is no set order to listen in so feel

0:49.2

free to jump to more recent seasons or relevant episodes for you.

0:52.8

Enjoy the show.

0:53.8

The dateable podcast is hosted by me, I'm U.A.

1:00.8

The Datable Podcast is hosted by me, I'm U.A. a former dating coach in New York turned

1:06.3

active dater in San Francisco. On each episode you'll hear commentary by my producer Julie

1:11.7

Kraft chick and other surprise co-host.

1:14.8

This episode of Datable is brought to you by 500 Brunches.

1:18.2

500 Brunches connects like-minded people with similar interests to meet in real life over brunch. You answer a

1:24.4

quick questionnaire about your interests and how you spend your time and then they'll

1:28.2

match you in small groups of six to eight at a brunch spot in San Francisco.

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