Season 10 Episode 3: PHD in Mansplaining

Dateable: Your insider's look into modern dating and relationships

Yue Xu and Julie Krafchick

Science, Social Sciences, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships, Society & Culture

4.7 • 910 Ratings

🗓️ 26 February 2020

⏱️ 63 minutes

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Join us as we talk to Mindy about her one-sided date where it felt like the whole time she was getting mansplained. We discuss how to respond to dates that feel disrespectful, discerning between innocent misunderstandings, and how to be aware if you’re doing this type of behavior yourself. Follow us @dateablepodcast. Check out our website for more content, live show dates, and merchandise. Thank you to our partners for this episode: Flutter: Download this new dating app that only works on Sundays with matches and messages expiring at midnight to move the convo offline. Currently available in the Bay area (but expanding soon): https://joinflutter.app.link/dateable BetterHelp: Get 10% off your first month of online therapy at betterhelp.com/dateable with the code DATEABLE. Dateable is part of the Frolic Podcast Network. You can find more outstanding podcasts to subscribe to at frolic.media/podcasts WE WROTE A BOOK! HOW TO BE DATEABLE (Simon & Schuster) is available now: https://howtobedateable.com/ Want to remove distractions from your dates? Download Brick and get 10% off at https://www.getbrick.app/DATEABLE Our Sponsors: * Avocado Green Mattress: Check out their mattress and furniture sale: https://avocadogreenmattress.com/DATEABLE * Get Rain of Shadows and Endings wherever books are sold or at Kensington Publishing https://www.kensingtonbooks.com * Quince: Get free shipping and 365 day returns at https://quince.com/dateable * Ruggable: Get 10% off your first order, sitewide, with promo code DATEABLE at https://ruggable.com Advertising Inquiries: https://redcircle.com/brands Privacy & Opt-Out: https://redcircle.com/privacy

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0:00.0	The dateable podcast is an insider's look into modern dating that the Huffington Post calls
0:04.8	one of the top 10 podcasts about love and sex. On each episode we'll talk to real daters about everything
0:11.2	from sex parties to sex dreptts, date fails to diaper fetishes,
0:14.8	and first moves to first loves. I'm your host U.S.U. former dating coach turned
0:19.3	dating sociologist. You also hear from my co-host and producer Julie Craftchick as we explore this crazy
0:26.0	dateable world.
0:27.0	Hey everyone, welcome to another episode of
0:33.3	Datable, a show all about modern dating. I know we've all been on dates
0:38.5	where you are on a date with someone but then you're like,
0:42.1	are you on a date with me because you're talking at me and not to me. Oh God yeah I can I can
0:49.7	definitely recall a few of those where I kind of find myself just sitting there thinking am I even here am I
0:56.0	existing? I had a date kind of recently where I was like I'm going to do the two-drink rule. This is like the new rule that I've learned from
1:04.5	data ball. Which is good. Yes. Agreed because sometimes people just are nervous at the beginning.
1:08.9	Yeah. This guy did not ask me a single thing until we were ready to do a third drink and at that point
1:15.0	and I can't do this anymore.
1:16.4	No.
1:17.4	Yeah, like it's really tough being on a date like that because it doesn't feel like a
1:21.9	conversation just feels like someone wants to get their story out.
1:25.6	Yes, it's very much one-sided and it's I feel like you and I are even more sensitive to it because when we interview guests for a
1:34.4	podcast we are the ones trying to get as much information as possible from them
1:38.9	so it is one-sided so when you feel that way on a date then you feel like way is this a podcast recording because this shouldn't be like this
1:49.4	Before we get to her story, I guess I should explain something to everyone.
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