My scumbag boyfriend had an affair with my therapist after she pressured him into doing it and I

simply don't know what to do now. I have been in therapy for about a year now because I was on

the verge of a burnout and still had trauma to work through from my previous relationship,

which has negatively impacted my current relationship with my boyfriend. While my current

relationship has been an increasingly frequent topic in my therapy sessions, I was honestly there

because of psychological pressure regarding my studies and my work. Lately, I've been feeling

increasingly worse and haven't been able to handle the pressure around me as well, which has also

put a strain on my relationship. Because I wasn't being completely honest with my therapist and

her suggestions weren't really working, we agreed to include my boyfriend in some of the sessions.

These were to be one-on-one sessions so that she could get his perspective and create a plan

that would take his needs into consideration as well. My therapist has been very helpful in helping

me better reflect on my emotions and better articulating my needs. The better I could deal with

the pressure, the better things went between me and my boyfriend. After a while, I noticed that my

therapist was acting increasingly strange, whereas before she was very neutral and asked more

pointed questions that allowed to reflect on my own behavior in relation to my relationship and

patterns of behavior, she increasingly began to badmouth my relationship and blame me for my

relationship problems. I found this very strange and I couldn't explain where the sudden change

came from, but I didn't think too much of it. Maybe I was just on the fence about how badly I

treat my boyfriend fast forward to now. Yesterday, I was at my boyfriend's house and we were having

a nice day and we decided to watch a movie together before bedtime, out of nowhere. He suddenly had

tears in his eyes and then he confessed to me that he has been having an affair with her.

My therapist, he cried the whole time and reassured to me that he regrets it and doesn't want to lose

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