SC 90 - 4 Steps To Solving Money Problems In Your Marriage - Bari Tessler Linden

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 18 January 2017

⏱️ 74 minutes

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Summary

Money and Relationships! Some say this is one of the top 3 reasons people get divorced. So, do the two of you feel "on the same page" with money or is it a source of tension? If you feel challenged in any way around money in your relationship life, then listen to my friend Bari Tessler breakdown 4 steps to being a more empowered team around money. Any smart couple will want to get this part of their relationship handled and this podcast will be a great start

SHOWNOTES

Bari’s Money Story [9:00]
Combining ‘money-stories’ with your partner: avoid the pitfalls [16:00]
What to do when one person in the relationship handles most of the finances [17:00]
How men and women can think differently about finances - and why it’s important to understand money your way [20:00]
Have you ever been surprised by a partner’s financial problems, months (or even years) into your relationship? Here’s how to handle it [21:00]
When, where and how to bring up the ‘money’ talk [23:00]
Should you be saving your grocery receipts? Merging our money can be an important step in a relationship (but it’s not for everyone) [25:00]
Dealing with shame around money [30:00]
The risks we take by not dealing with our money [34:00]
Asking for help with your finances shame-free [35:00]
Doing the emotional work first [38:00]
A practical tool for dealing with money day-to-day [40:00]
How to have ‘money-dates’ with your partner [42:00]
The four phases of money with your honey [47:00]
What happens when your partner wants to buy something ‘fun and expensive’? [57:00]
Getting clear on your money-map [1:01:00]

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0:00.0	We're horrified at first like you spend money how
0:03.4	Yeah, your debt is what? Your dad is what? the Hi and welcome back to the Smart Couple podcast episode 90. I'm Jason Gatiss, I'm your host, and I'm really happy to be here with you in this moment.
0:39.7	Thanks for coming back and thanks for joining us if you're new.
0:44.0	This podcast is designed to help you have a great relationship
0:47.4	over many years and get out of the
0:51.1	magical thinking that it's supposed to feel good all the time and remind you that it
0:56.4	actually takes work to have a fulfilling relationship, a fulfilling marriage or a
1:03.1	long-term partnership.
1:06.1	Right? Like anything good in life, as Henry Rollins says,
1:10.1	you got to work at it. Nothing good comes without effort and working through
1:17.4	pain. That's my experience feels true for me. In fact on the other side of pain and challenge is usually a victory that
1:27.3	feels outstanding and my confidence increases when I get through a challenge, right?
1:34.0	So, really, really good stuff here.
1:38.0	And I have great guests, I have smart people here,
1:42.0	I have couples and experts and my wife and it's just a good place to learn about intimacy. Okay, so thank you for coming. All right, in this
1:58.8	episode I have my friend Barry Tesla.
2:04.0	Barry Tesla is Barry Tesla Linden is a financial therapist mentor coach and mamopurnure.
2:12.0	Barry's gentle body centered approach weaves together personal couple and creative entrepreneurial
2:16.7	money teachings into one complete tapestry, which is the founder of The Art of Money,
2:21.8	a global year-long money school, which integrates money healing, money practices, and money maps.
2:27.0	And I'll share more about that at the end if you want to dive in, because it's starting soon.
2:32.0	Her work has been featured on
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