SC 86 - Why People Get Divorced In January & What To Do About It - Charles J. Orlando

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 4 January 2017

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Show Notes

Charles’ relationship story. [9:50]
How we know if we’re ready for marriage. [13:00]
Why do you people get divorced in January? [15:00]
The #1 thing you can do to prevent a “January Divorce”. [17:00]
A micro step you can take to ratchet up the ‘honesty’ in your relationship. [19:00]
How to get real, raw and say the hard truths (and how NOT to say it). [21:00]
How Charles recently got through a super tough time in his relationship.[22:00]
How to know when a relationship has run its course. [25:00]
The pacts to make with yourself that help you take responsibility and take back control of your happiness in relationships. [28:00]
The reason great relationships take effort - and how to use that effort to create the best possible relationship. [34:00]
An unusual type of therapy that Charles uses to turn peoples marriages around. [38:00]
Your action step.

GUEST BIO

Charles J. Orlando is a relationship expert and bestselling author of The Problem with Women... is Men book series and The Pact: Goodbye, Past. Hello, Love!, and the upcoming graphic novella Don't Date A Dick, and he serves as expert host of the hit show Seven Year Switch on FYI (currently in its second season).

Referred to as "The Malcolm Gladwell of Relationships" by the media, and "Carrie Bradshaw-meets-Hitch" by his readers, Charles has built a 1,400,000+ person fanbase on Facebook—completely by word-of-mouth—where he offers free, street-smart love advice to men and women around the world. Charles has personally connected with tens of thousands of singles and couples to discover the answers to key questions that plague modern-day romance: What challenges plague romantic relationships in today's technology-centric world; and what do women and men truly want from their significant others—and themselves—in a long-term relationship?

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0:00.0	You never know what you're getting into.
0:02.0	That's why I laugh when people say,
0:03.0	I'm going to get married when I'm ready.
0:05.0	I'm going to have kids when I'm ready.
0:06.0	You know what, you're never ready.
0:08.0	You get, you get as close as you can.
0:11.0	And then you buy a lot of scotch,
0:12.0	and you drink it all, and then you buy a lot of Scotch and you drink it all and then you're ready. So, All right. Hello January 4th. Wow, 2017. Welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast and welcome if you're new.
0:47.0	You're just joining us for this year, your life is going to change if you continue to listen to this podcast in particular
0:54.9	your relationship to yourself and future partner or current partner and
1:00.0	probably even your friendships and family relationships.
1:04.0	I'm Jason Gattis, I'm your host and here at the Smart Couple Podcast
1:08.0	we are all about having beautiful, deep relationships,
1:12.0	particularly with one person.
1:15.0	When it comes to long-term relationship like marriage,
1:20.0	there is a lot of roadblocks and challenges and so my job is to help you with those.
1:27.0	We come, you know, head to head here with our own bullshit in relationship and that's usually what stops us from getting the kind of love that we want in our hearts.
1:46.9	So because you're listening here the assumption is you're into growth and development you're into looking at yourself in the mirror.
1:50.3	There are not quick fixes on this podcast where you get to point the finger at someone and feel better.
1:58.0	Obviously, I'm into staring myself in the face all day long in my marriage and when my marriage isn't
2:06.4	going well and it's challenged which is often because that's just the nature of long-term relationship, I have challenges, my first question
2:15.6	is, what's my part? What is my part? What in the hell did I do or not do that caused this disconnection?
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