SC 78 - The Secret Weapon For Men To Deepen Their Relationships With Women - John Wineland
Relationship School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 16 November 2016
⏱️ 65 minutes
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Summary
Why do men need more solid men around them? In this episode, we explore the power of getting very honest with other men and how that can benefit your relationships to women. Our guest John Wineland shares his personal story and offers practical yet embodied tips for how a man can learn how to do relationships in a much more powerful and sustainable way.
SHOWNOTES
- How did John get into men's work? [9:30]
- The massive opportunity and lessons in fatherhood. [12:30]
- How death has been one of John's biggest teachers. [18:00]
- Why just having guy friends is sometimes not enough. [21:00]
- Does every man need a men's group? [24:30]
- What is the most powerful spiritual work that John now does? [35:00]
- What can a woman do to help her man get into men's work? [38:00]
- The game-changing move that a man can do to transform his relationship. [45:00]
- Jayson gives an action step. [58:00]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | I want to bring the best I've got to bring in this very short period I have on the planet |
| 0:06.0 | and if I can have a group of men who are going to call me on my bullshit, I certainly want that in my corner. So, Hi and welcome back to the Smart Couple Podcast episode 78. I'm your host |
| 0:41.9 | Jason Gatiss and I am all about growing and developing myself so that I can have the most outstanding relationship possible. |
| 0:56.6 | And once I do that, I more as possible in my life, |
| 1:01.6 | right, in my marriage |
| 1:05.0 | partner is like when we're connected it's like I have two rocket boosters |
| 1:12.0 | on the side of me, right? |
| 1:14.0 | And when we're disconnected and we're not doing well because we're in a fight or one of us is hurting and we can't find our connection, |
| 1:22.0 | it's like I don't have I'm operating in my life without one of those rocket |
| 1:26.4 | visitors and it's I'm just not as strong. It's a very strange and some people would call that, you know, cod dependent and they'd have another number of different labels for it. |
| 1:37.5 | I don't, that's fine, I don't care. I just know from my own experience that more is possible when my partner and I are |
| 1:46.1 | working our connection in a strong way. And so all the more reason to learn how to be connected and to have both rocket boosters plugged in to each other. |
| 1:58.0 | Okay, and it's strange, but our connection, I call it the secure home base, and when that is strong, more as possible. |
| 2:10.0 | And if you've partnered with someone for a really long time, you notice this, right? |
| 2:14.0 | That when you're plugged into them, you can do more. |
| 2:17.5 | And when you're unplugged because of drama, fighting, etc, life is already hard and now it just got harder. |
| 2:25.0 | Because now you have to go home to stress, relational stress. |
| 2:29.0 | Your home is harder to be in. It's harder to sleep next to this person because your |
| 2:35.1 | nervous system is seeing them as a threat. So we do the work on ourselves so that |
| 2:40.8 | we can have that go away and we can work through that. |
| 2:46.8 | You can't work through that shit and if you don't know how and you don't learn how. |
| 2:50.6 | It's really straightforward guys. So here so here at the smart couple I bring on guests and couples and my wife all with the intention of helping you not only get what you want |
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