What you want to do? Hey what's up relationship geeks and freaks.

Jason Gatis back with another episode of the Smart Couple podcast.

How's it going? How's the marriage today? How's the relationship?

How's single life? What's the story over there?

Today the story is the weather report from my marriage is all good, all mellow, and connected, which is nice. You know those days when you feel

disconnected from your partner, they're just kind of harder. And today, and really this week happens to be one of those times that my wife and I are

Really on our game and we've got the secure home base going on which is it just really feels

like I can tackle so much more you know what I mean in my life it just feels

great as you know this podcast is about changing the relationship conversation and reframing any and all relationship

pain as opportunities to get stronger and have what we want with an intimate partner.

So you've come to the right place if you want that. In this episode I'm going to get into divorce and something I didn't say in my short rant on

divorce here is that this is coming from the perspective of if you're choosing the divorce.

Okay, this isn't necessarily for you if your partner is choosing to divorce you.

That's a different conversation.

This conversation is designed for you if you chose divorce.

Because for usually for one partner there, one partner is choosing the divorce.

And occasionally it's mutually decided upon,

and if that's you, then this podcast is for you.

But if all of a sudden you got the news one day

that your partner doesn't want to be with you

and they want to divorce,

I'm really not talking to you,

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