SC 189 - Top 10 Takeaways From The Interpersonal Neurobiology Conference at UCLA - Jayson & Ellen
The Jayson Gaddis Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.7 • 999 Ratings
🗓️ 29 March 2018
⏱️ 41 minutes
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Summary
This year's Interpersonal Neurobiology Conference at UCLA was a dream for a relationship research and brain science nerd!
If you geek out on that stuff, you'll love hearing the highlights Jayson and his therapist partner, Ellen Boeder, have in their personal conference notes.
SHOWNOTES:
- Antonio Damasio Highlights [5:00]
- Dan Siegel Highlights [8:00]
- Harville Hendrix and Helen Hunt Highlights - Safe Conversation [12:00]
- Crazy Listening Statistic [15:00]
- Secure Functioning Relationships and Other Stan Tatkin Highlights [18:00]
- Insight for Therapists and Couples from Peter Pierson [18:00]
- Affairs and Esther Perel Highlights [25:00]
- The Shame of Staying With a Partner That Cheats [29:00]
- Insight from the Couples Panel [31:00]
For the full web posting for this Smart Couple Podcast episode visit https://relationshipschool.net/podcast189
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | Studies on listening. So left-har on devices, we're only getting things right |
| 0:05.2 | 13% of the time, which is pretty bad. That's pretty pathetic, right, if you think |
| 0:09.0 | about, and then under stress, we're even worse. Totally. So... Hello and |
| 0:35.0 | you're not. I'm your host, Jason Gatis, and you're not. |
| 0:41.0 | Remember that line from Chevy Chase many years ago for you old schoolers Saturday Night Live? |
| 0:47.9 | Anyway, some of you will get that reference. Anyway, I am just honored to be here to bend your ear for a while with this crazy technology we have. |
| 0:57.0 | You can listen to me while you're commuting, running, walking, exercising, or hanging out and learn at the same time. |
| 1:04.1 | It's pretty incredible. |
| 1:06.8 | Okay, this podcast is about growing and developing yourself |
| 1:09.8 | through the vehicle of partnership, long-term relationship. |
| 1:13.6 | And it's also helpful for your friendships |
| 1:18.2 | and your family relationships, your work relationships. |
| 1:22.2 | So even though the context of this is long-term partnership, |
| 1:26.4 | because that's the hardest relationship. |
| 1:27.9 | Once you start to figure that out, |
| 1:29.3 | you can do any relationship well. |
| 1:32.4 | You become the most mature person in the room that can handle the |
| 1:36.3 | conflict, handle the upset and can listen to someone until they feel |
| 1:39.6 | understood. So it's an incredibly empowering feeling when you learn this stuff around intimacy and |
| 1:46.2 | connection. All right, let's dive in. In this episode I've got my wife and I chatting about our top takeaways from the |
| 1:58.2 | interpersonal neurobiology conference. Now we realize this is going to be appealing to some of you and not all of you. |
| 2:07.0 | So we're taking that risk here as we often do. |
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