So, Happy New Year and welcome back to the relationship school's Smart Couple

podcast. I'm your host Jason Gatis. What is up friend? How has this

transition from 2017 to 2018 been for you? Are you setting goals looking

ahead or are you in shame and wondering what to do next? Or are you making the classic mistake of setting up

New Year's resolutions with no accountability

and not really factoring in your values,

and your compass, and what's most important to you.

I had a friend recently say, I want to get my finances together and there was no plan, no accountability, and this friend,

it just was way lower down on his values in the compass.

So it's just not gonna happen for him.

So the challenge to him was, hey, you got to move this higher up.

So you got to see how getting your financial life together will serve your highest value

and your mission in life, for example.

So you got to do the same thing in your relationship guys. If you want

2018 to be the year that is different for you, like mind-blowingly different or just moving

the needle a teeny bit whatever if you want this year to be the year where you have the most

mature

Fulfilling long-term relationship of your adult life, you're going to need to move

this up your values, hierarchy, on the compass, I teach a lot about the compass in my courses. Class 3 of the free web

series, for example. You're going to need to move it up. Excuse me, class 2. You're going to need to move it up.

You can't prioritize everything. Right? If you're

trying to get in shape and get your financial life together and improve your

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