SC 129 - The Danger of Over-Burdening Your Partner With Your Problems
Relationship School Podcast
Jayson Gaddis
4.6 • 981 Ratings
🗓️ 5 June 2017
⏱️ 12 minutes
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Summary
How do we not burn out our partner with our problems? Is it okay to have them be the only support system for us? What is a better set up? In this episode you'll hear some feedback on why it's important to c0-support each other and not just have it be one way.
Erica's question:
Can you speak about dealing with a partner’s emotions during high stress and emotional times so that we can be both fulfilled?
- Erica's question [2:00]
- How to help your partner in a way that works for you [5:00]
- When you should be seeking support outside of the relationship [5:00]
- How to avoid burning your partner out with your problems [6:00]
- What you can do to take the pressure off the relationship in high-stress times [7:00]
Transcript
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| 0:00.0 | So, Welcome to the Smart Couple Podcast and Show, Broadcasting Live here from Boulder, Colorado. |
| 0:28.0 | Ask Me Anything episode. So this is where you get to ask me a question. It's usually emailed in ahead of time. I answer that question and then at the end of that question you can ask related questions if you want and we're here for 10 to 15 minutes usually |
| 0:45.5 | Just kind of laser feedback on your situation |
| 0:48.9 | So I want to start by |
| 0:55.0 | with this question from Erica. |
| 0:59.8 | Okay, it's a good one on supporting each other and when one partner is really over supporting someone. |
| 1:03.0 | What does that look like? |
| 1:04.0 | You know, what do we do? |
| 1:06.2 | When you feel like you're the one supporting a lot |
| 1:08.2 | or that needs a lot and your partner's supporting you a lot. |
| 1:12.1 | So we're gonna get into that, okay? |
| 1:15.0 | Okay. |
| 1:16.0 | I just want to quickly announce that June 8th is a free two-part web series |
| 1:22.0 | and that's on it's like a relationship school teaser class |
| 1:28.1 | intro course that's free for anyone okay and we're to talk about the seven fundamentals of how you really |
| 1:35.8 | dominate your relationship life in a good way, good strong way. Okay, two web classes, one next Thursday, and then the other one June 15th, the following Thursday. |
| 1:46.0 | Okay, so be there if you can, Jason Gatis.com slash summer, right? |
| 1:52.0 | Now in the meantime, I encourage you guys to join the |
| 1:55.3 | relationship school roots community. We have a group call today and we do a much |
| 1:59.6 | longer deeper dive and I talk about stuff for my own life, wins and losses from my own |
| 2:05.8 | marriage, etc. So I want you to join that community if you want to get more than just these five, ten minute little hits. |
| 2:15.6 | Okay. Okay. |
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