SC 128 - Negative Beliefs That Block Your Relationship Potential

Relationship School Podcast

Jayson Gaddis

Relationships, Relationshippodcast, Sex, Relationshipadvice, Society & Culture, Jaysongaddispodcast, Health & Fitness, Mental Health

4.6 • 981 Ratings

🗓️ 31 May 2017

⏱️ 58 minutes

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Summary

Are you aware how your past negative experiences are shaping your current relationship reality? Well, they are and until you deal with those, it will be harder to get what you claim you want. In this episode my guest Mark Groves takes us on a deeper exploration about how negative beliefs can block your relationship potential. And some of those negative beliefs might be buried below your awareness. I'm so grateful for Mark's gifts here and I think you'll get a lot out of this episode. Especially if you like working your inner psychology.

SHOWNOTES

How Mark got to being a "Human Connection Specialist" [7:00]
How do you know if they're 'The One'? [12:30]
A quick tip for when you need to make a difficult decision [18:00]
Finding the underlying core beliefs that keep you stuck in unconscious patterns [20:00]
How we sell ourselves out for security and safety [21:00]
Why people get married when they don't really want to [24:00]
The power of subconscious narratives [25:00]
Redefining marriage to suit your relationship [28:00]
The difference between choosing marriage out of fear vs love [31:00]
How you can re-frame your internal narrative to dis-identify from negative thought patterns [42:00]
A powerful exercise to take ownership and responsibility for your life [44:00]
How Mark handles relationship challenges [50:00]

Transcript

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0:00.0	Any major decision in my life, I think about what would I decide if it affected no one. the Yo friends what's up and welcome back to another episode of the
0:30.7	relationship schools smart couple podcast episode number 1 to 8.
0:35.0	If you're new, this podcast is new, this podcast is all about growth and development in the context of intimate long-term relationships.
0:47.0	That's right. We assert that having a great long-term relationship
0:54.6	requires growing and developing yourself.
0:58.2	That includes growing up,
1:01.2	growing yourself up from a wounded boy or girl into an adult who can listen well and communicate effectively.
1:10.0	And when you get triggered, you can come back around and work through the challenge.
1:19.0	That's essentially what we're doing here, all right?
1:21.0	And if you're returning, psych to have you here again, welcome back. Thanks a lot for your
1:28.8	reviews. Feel free to leave a review if you haven't as a kind thank you.
1:33.6	And for your listenership, for your comments, for your feedback, for your questions,
1:38.5	and just the ongoing support. We have a thriving community here and one of the places we hang out is on
1:45.0	Facebook in the Smart Couple Facebook group and you can join that for free to go
1:51.2	to Jason Gatiss.com slash smart couple group and we'll include that
1:56.0	link in the show notes and you can just click on it and ask to join.
1:59.8	And there's thousands of people in there like you who want to have or are having good relationships and like to offer feedback, like to receive feedback, and yeah, it's a good crew of people.
2:12.0	Now, sometimes we have guests on the show,
2:14.9	sometimes we don't, sometimes it's just me riffing,
2:17.9	jamming, venting, and pontificating
2:21.4	about partnership.
2:23.2	And other times my wife hangs out with me here,
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