Say This To Get The Highest Response On Dating Apps ft. Melissa Hobley

We Met At Acme

Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar

Education, Society & Culture, Relationships, Self-improvement

4.2 • 2.4K Ratings

🗓️ 6 March 2022

⏱️ 54 minutes

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Summary

In this week’s episode, I sit down with the CMO of OkCupid, Melissa Hobley. We discuss why everyone needs that outgoing friend, the reason after a break up is the best time to date, going through an addiction in the family, what we don't know about dating apps, dating app insider tips, how political we should be getting on apps, what gets the highest response rate on dating apps, and what is the hardest to respond to on dating apps. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss resetting expectations in an LTR, sending guys flowers, following the rules when you’re in the same group, how life gets better for women as we age, if my exes were at my wedding, how often is normal to have sex, and more.

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0:00.0	The following podcast is a deer media production.
0:06.5	Hey guys, welcome back to We Met at Act Me. I don't usually talk about more than dating on
0:14.0	the podcast, but I just wanted to say that my heart is really with everyone in the Ukraine that
0:20.3	is suffering, that's hurting, that's in turmoil. It's really, really so tragic and we are thinking of
0:32.8	the Ukraine, all of us are, and I just wanted to say that outright so that you know that it's in my
0:40.8	head, it should be in your head, and you should try to read up as much as you can so that you're
0:47.6	in the know, but definitely don't get your news from a dating podcast host. Okay, so thank you guys,
0:55.9	so much for listening to our wedding episode, I say hour because like it's all of our wedding,
1:00.5	you know, anyone who's been listening for a while, you're here with me and we all got married
1:06.1	a few weeks ago, so thank you. I'm gonna answer a few of your questions and then we're gonna get
1:10.6	into Melissa. She is amazing, she's a boss as bitch and she has been killing it, okay,
1:19.2	keep it for a while. She's got so many great tips for us when it comes to dating apps and
1:25.4	just finding someone, the energy that you need to put out there, I love the story of how her and
1:30.3	her husband met and I think that's gonna inspire a lot of you. Somebody said, oh God, can you explain
1:37.3	the married couple who hooked up during your ceremony? So confused, nobody hooked up during our
1:41.2	ceremony. Our wedding was out of hotel, so a couple went up and did something during the reception
1:49.6	at like a moment, they snuck away, nobody noticed, it was all fun and games and it was, it was hot,
1:58.7	a good for them, you know, like they don't have, they don't get the chance to do that often,
2:03.5	they have a baby, whatever, I'm just very happy for them, that's what happened. How do you have
2:10.0	a good combo about resetting rules and expectations that have slipped in a long-term relationship?
2:17.2	I first want to know why they've slipped, has this person gotten too comfortable, etc. I think that
2:24.5	the best way to handle something like this is just like a normal conversation, not like a
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