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So Your Parents Are Old

Savannah Guthrie and Other Good Daughters with Allison Alford

So Your Parents Are Old

Vanessa Grigoriadis

Relationships, Society & Culture

4.51K Ratings

🗓️ 10 February 2026

⏱️ 34 minutes

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Summary

If you’re the one keeping the family together—texts, holidays, appointments, feelings—you’re probably “daughtering.” Vanessa talks with Baylor professor and communication expert Allison Alford, author of Good Daughtering, about the invisible work adult daughters do. They dig into guilt, burnout, “daughter rage,” and how to set boundaries that still feel loving (and are actually sustainable).


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Our production team is Shoshi Shmuluvitz, managing producer and editor; Lily Houston Smith, senior producer; Ashley Warren, production manager; Yi-Wen Lai-Tremewan, studio recordist; and music by Mark McAdam and Amber Devereux.

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All right, everybody.

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Welcome back to So Your Parents Are Old.

1:06.1

I'm here today with Alison Alford, who is a wonderful author who wrote a book called Good Daughtering. Good

1:13.6

daughtering, it is verb. It is a thing that many of you probably do. You out there who are keeping

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