Savage Lovecast Episode 994

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 18 November 2025

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

She dated her neighbor for a while, until it became clear that she couldn’t enjoy sex with him because his giant, massive, gargantuan penis was too big for her. Now that she is starting to date other men, should she tell them the history of her friendly neighbor 5 doors down? A woman has enjoyed friends-with-benefits relationship with a man where all they do is cuddle and have sex. No outings with friends. No movies. No hikes. Now that he is beginning to get serious with another woman, can they maintain this friendship *without* the benefits? On the Magnum, a very miserable woman considers doing sex work after applying for hundreds of jobs with no results. Dan brings on Ashley Bloomberg- a sex researcher who recently published a paper on the reasons sex workers in Las Vegas pursued their careers. The difference between doing sex work under duress vs. doing sex work out of genuine desire is stark. And, it’s the nightmare scenario: A queer, polyamorous woman dating a trans woman has a 14 year-old son who has gone full conservative Christian on her. The lad thinks that sex outside of marriage is an unforgivable sin. What is going on with him, and how can the caller bring him to a more kind and reasonable mindset? Call with your questions, or you will be banished to the lake of fire. [email protected] 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Hims, providing affordable access to ED treatment, online. Start your free online visit today at Hims.com/Savage. This episode is brought to you by Aura Frames, the best digital picture frame, and the best gift EVER. For a limited time, visit AuraFrames.com and get $45 off Aura’s best-selling Carver Mat frames by using promo code SAVAGE at checkout. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Right now, Helix is offering 27% off site wide. Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. Dan Savage is a sex-advice columnist, podcaster, author, and creator of the It Gets Better Project. From bondage to bisexuality, cuckolding to crossdressing and with a dose of progressive politics, Dan Savage is a cultural force for sex positivity, when we most need it.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the Savage Lovecast, Dan Savage's Sex and Relationship Show for grownups.
0:05.1	If you're under 18, get out of here, young.
0:08.5	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary,
0:12.3	or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:17.6	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:26.6	I can't. I just can't with the Hitler had a micropinus story.
0:30.7	So if you're hoping this week's intro would be about the newly released analysis of Hitler's DNA.
0:36.3	As it turns out, he may have had a rare genetic condition
0:38.6	called Kalman syndrome, which can leave male sufferers with undescended testicles and
0:43.6	micropenuses. That's what you're hoping I was going to talk about. Top of the show,
0:47.5	you're going to be disappointed because I don't want to talk about Hitler's dick,
0:50.3	because I'm a fan of Dick, of Dick, not of Hitler.
0:56.5	Clarification I now have to make because so many podcasters on the right have come out as fans of Hitler's in the last few years.
1:04.2	So to be clear, this podcast is pro dick and anti-Aidolf.
1:08.6	I also can't, just can't.
1:12.2	Kind of the same reason?
1:13.4	Pro dick?
1:13.9	I can't with the Vladimir Putin has pictures of Donald Trump
1:17.1	giving Bill Clinton a blowjob story.
1:19.9	Donald Trump has ruined so much for all of us already.
1:23.5	So many shattered norms, so many battered institutions.
1:26.2	And the more I hear about this alleged picture of this alleged blowjob referenced in the released batch of Jeffrey Epstein's emails, the closer Trump comes to ruining blowjobs for me.
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