Savage Lovecast Episode 922

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 25 June 2024

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Her husband of ten years is interested in learning about non-monogamy. He started attending workshops about "divine femininity" and "dark masculinity." The workshop leader seems sketchy and cultish to the caller. How can she vet this potential grifter and help her husband develop a little reasonable skepticism? A woman and her husband have been in a poly relationship with another woman for 11 years. She is intertwined with the family and helps out with the kids. You know who also helps with the kids? The caller's mother-in-law, who lives with them. At some point will she guess who the girlfriend really is? Will the kids? Should the caller tell everyone that their "very good friend" is really their long-term partner? On the Magnum, Dan welcomes back Mexican writer, artist and activist Leo Herrera, with some good news: Cruising is BACK, baby! He and Dan talk about how dating and hook-up apps fail gay men, and how people have lost the ability to interact IRL. His book "Analog Cruising" is out now. Learn how to do it right! And, a woman in her 60s had a mostly emotional affair with a married man. She doesn't want to be a mistress. But he really seemed like the love of her life. Will she love again? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. For the month of May, Helix is offering up to 30% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:05.0	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.4	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:23.3	Addison Smith got engaged, everybody.
0:26.6	Smith, you know, Addison Smith, the host of In Focus with Addison Smith on the
0:30.9	Real Talk Radio Network.
0:32.4	That's Charlie Kirk and Rudy Giuliani and Steve Bannon's outfit.
0:36.0	His show is on every day.
0:37.4	I checked. It's an actual
0:38.2	show on every day from 3 to 4 a.m. So, yeah, not exactly prime radio real estate. Addison claims
0:47.7	he's the youngest talk show host in America. And since I can't cut Addison in half and count
0:52.3	the rings, there is no way for me to verify that.
0:55.6	But what Addison may be most famous for, at least as of last week, was the tweet he posted announcing his engagement.
1:02.2	Pride month is so defeated.
1:04.9	Addison tweeted out, along with a photo of him proposing to his girlfriend in June.
1:10.1	And his girlfriend apparently said yes to the mess.
1:14.5	What Addison would have us believe the assertion he's making to his followers is that gay people don't want straight people to be straight, that we don't want you to date each other, get married, or have kids.
1:27.0	And like so much else from the right, the
1:29.2	pure projection, they don't want us, right-wing straight people, don't want us, don't want
1:35.2	gay people to date or get married or have kids. We're fine with you getting married and having
1:40.3	kids and doing all the things. Love is love, as they say. But I think the most important
1:46.6	message here, the one Addison was really invested in getting across, is that Addison Smith got
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