Savage Lovecast Episode 917

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 21 May 2024

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

A lesbian has befriended a married lesbian couple. She thinks they're both hot, and in various light-hearted conversations, they said they were open to group sex. But were they serious? Should the caller proposition them? When a woman was 17, she connected with a 24 year-old man, and began a fraught relationship full of sex, drama and sneaking around. She eventually cut things off, convinced that the age difference made it exploitative. He still tries to contact her now and again. How bad was this, and how can she get him out of her head? This weeks guest is comedian Rachel Feinstein. Her upcoming Netflix comedy special "Big Guy" is not to be missed. Now, let's talk about tea bagging. Sure, you know what it means. But who is the "tea-bagger?" The one with the mouth, or the one with the balls? Unsurprisingly, this conversation raises more questions than it answers. These two get super-real with each other, spelling out the stories of their first sexual encounters. Dan's first-time story has a detail that even shocked Nancy...you'll just have to listen. The first 8 minutes are on the Micro, and the whole raucous thing is on the Magnum. Finally, we all deal with grief in different ways. This poor man lost a dear friend, and consoles himself with frequent masturbation. Is this healthy? Is it ok? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. For the month of May, Helix is offering up to 30% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Liberator: makers of an amazing amount of shapes and other products that fuel your desires AND make sex easier, better, and longer. Go to LIBERATOR.com and use the promo code “SAVAGE” to save 40% off the best-selling Wedge Ramp Combo. Liberator wants BETTER SEX FOR EVERYBODY, and that starts with YOU

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at Savage. Love.
0:05.1	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.5	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:21.6	Big news to start the show this week, I finally saw Challengers, the new Zendaya film about three tennis pros. And it was, it was okay? I mean, your ability to enjoy the film really does, to a great extent, rely on you knowing something, anything at all about how scoring works in tennis.
0:44.5	And I don't know anything at all about the very confusing scoring system in tennis.
0:51.0	So during the big match that the entire film is built around, this big match,
0:55.8	this grudge match with the power to save a marriage, I had no idea who was up or down or
1:01.5	winning or losing or who needed to score the next. I don't even know what you call it. Run,
1:07.7	basket, touchdown, goal. I know how scoring works in the four bigs, baseball, basketball,
1:13.7	football, soccer, but tennis, all I know about tennis is nice thighs. Anyway, the movie, as you
1:22.0	must know by now, is about a love triangle between three hot people or a love hexagon between six nice thighs. And besides thinking,
1:30.5	what is the score? I kind of need to know the score right now. And they're showing me the score in
1:35.5	this box on the screen and assuming I know what it means, but it might as well be in hieroglyphics,
1:42.1	besides thinking all of that over and over again.
1:45.8	The only other thing I could think while I watched this movie was,
1:48.5	why do straight people have to make it so weird?
1:52.0	These three nice straight kids and their six nice thighs could have had a nice normal polytriad
1:59.2	with a little MM action now and then,
2:01.3	a little makeout session now and then between the boys to turn the girl on.
2:05.4	But no, we couldn't have that, couldn't have a nice normal thruple.
2:09.9	We had to have a deeply conflicted, fucked up love triangle with rivalries and infidelities and tennis scores, monogamous people love to say how
2:21.9	exhausting polyamorous relationships sound, too much processing, too much scheduling, too much
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