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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 916

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 14 May 2024

⏱️ 51 minutes

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Summary

Her man used to enjoy chewing tobacco, and it messed up his teeth. He has quit at her behest, but now he really needs to see a dentist. She doesn't want to shame him for his nasty mouth, but she also doesn't want to kiss him. How can she gently guide him into a dentists chair? A trans man is having a hard time finding women to date him. He insists he's a catch, but the ladies aren't biting. Why?  On the Magnum, Dan welcomes Peggy Orenstein, author of eight books including Boys & Sex and Girls & Sex. Her essay in the New York Times about the ubiquity of erotic choking among young people went viral, freaking parents out. She and Dan talk about the dangers (both physical and emotional) of choking and then move on to more pleasant subjects: Like the Madonna/whore complex! And wanting someone you cannot have.  Lastly, a gay man has a wet & messy kink. Lube wrestling? Let's go! Pie in the face? Yes please! But even though his boyfriend is game, the caller still feels shame and has a hard time asking for the thing that turns him on the most.  You know what turns us on? Your calls. Usually.  Q@Savage.Love       206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. For the month of May, Helix is offering up to 30% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now.  This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage.  This episode is brought to you by the Meridian Trimmer, the very best tool to trim your body hair. Go to MeridianGrooming.com and use the code SAVAGE for an exclusive 15% off.

Transcript

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Lovecast at savage.

0:03.5

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.3

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.

0:21.6

I was rooting for Croatia.

0:25.1

If you don't know what I mean by that,

0:26.4

you weren't glued to your TV on Saturday afternoon

0:29.1

and you probably are straight.

0:31.0

If you know what I mean by that,

0:32.5

you are watching TV on Saturday afternoon

0:34.7

and you are probably gay

0:36.8

because when I say I was rooting for Croatia,

0:40.0

I am not, of course, referring to the war of Croatian succession, which raged from 1091 to 1102,

0:46.9

I am referring to the pan-European pop song contest known as Eurovision, which has been raging

0:52.7

since 1956, minus Russia since the invasion of Ukraine in

0:56.8

2022, plus Australia since 2015, because why not? And also plus Israel, which has been a part of

1:03.9

the show since 1973, but his participation this year was predictably controversial.

1:10.4

I'm going to quickly re-up here my call

1:11.8

for a ceasefire in Gaza and the release of all Israeli hostages. All right, Eurovision finals for

1:18.6

2024. We're on Saturday night. If you were in Europe, Saturday afternoon, if you were

1:22.4

in North America. And I am very sorry to report that I watched Eurovision this weekend instead of going to see challengers,

1:29.3

which makes me a bad sex podcaster. I still haven't seen challengers, but a good fag because I watched

1:36.1

Eurovision. And why was I rooting for Croatia while I watched Eurovision? It wasn't because I liked

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