Savage Lovecast Episode 906

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 5 March 2024

⏱️ 45 minutes

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Summary

A 27 year-old divorced woman goes to bars and picks up both men and women. She prefers them to be at least 10 years older because (as everyone knows,) they are better in bed. How can she find people in this age range, and keep their attention? A young, gay hottie hasn't had sex in 2 years because he wants more of a connection than casual hook-ups. But when he does connect, he loses interest quickly. How can he get over his analysis paralysis? Our guest this week is Molly Roden Winter, author of MORE: A Memoir of Open Marriage. She and Dan talk about how our society loses its mind at the thought of women (and especially mothers) exercising sexual autonomy. They talk about the challenges and benefits of polyamory and how to overcome jealousy. A little is on the Micro and the whole thing is on the Magnum. A woman with some kind of special sauce keeps making all the men fall in love with her! She clearly states from the very first date that she isn't looking for commitment. But they cling and they cling. What is she doing wrong? Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by the Meridian Trimmer, the very best tool to trim your body hair. Go to MeridianGrooming.com and use the code SAVAGE for an exclusive 15% off. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Helix is offering 20% off all mattress orders AND two free pillows ! Go to HelixSleep.com/Savage. With Helix, better sleep starts now. This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $80 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:05.0	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.4	well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. All right right which one of you did it which one of you
0:26.1	motherfucking groomers took those humpback whales to drag queen story hour for pride or the public
0:33.5	library that's how this works right having gay sex much sex, much less being gay. That doesn't just
0:37.8	happen. It's not something a member of a species just does. Someone's got to take you to a
0:43.6	pride parade or show you an LGBT book about gay penguins in a school library or you got to
0:49.7	see those lesbian moms in that one Pixar film where a couple of gay dads in an IKEA commercial and then
0:56.2	gay sex pops into your head then you want to do it which is what's so confusing about these
1:03.7	gay humpback whales big news over the weekend two male humpback whales were observed having
1:09.9	sex photographed having sex
1:11.6	near Hawaii in 2022. The Guardian had a headline for the ages. Humpback sex photographed for
1:18.8	first time and both whales male. Also love the subhead at the Guardian. Two same-sex marine
1:25.2	giants captured copulating an amorous encounter off Hawaii coast.
1:31.2	Amazingly, according to researchers, this was the very first time, the only time humpback whales have been observed having sex.
1:40.8	First time any humpback whale copulation has been observed at all. Even sightings of humpback whale
1:47.8	dick. Extremely rare. Also from the guardian. The penises of male humpback whales are usually
1:53.0	concealed in what is known as a genital slit to make the whale more streamlined while swimming.
1:58.4	An unsheathed penis has only been witnessed a small number of times
2:03.2	in the past, usually when a whale is pissing. Scientific American goes into more detail about this
2:09.6	specific sexual encounter observed by scientists between these two male humpback whales. Whale B had
2:15.8	inserted his penis into whale A's genital slit, the opening
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