Savage Lovecast Episode 892

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 28 November 2023

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

When telling a hook-up that you don't want to continue seeing them, how much detail should you give? A woman enjoyed the sex with her quickie guy, but he was too insecure and needy for her tastes. Should she tell him this in the exit interview? A lesbian was terribly bullied in school by three mean girls. She moved to Europe, came out and got her life together. One of the mean girls has been messaging her and flirting, asking her out for drinks for when she visits. So, to put it bluntly, should the caller fuck the shit out of her bully over Thanksgiving? On the Magnum: Are you the parent of a horny teen? Or a soon-to-be horny teen? Talking to them about sex can be daunting. Dan brings on Dr. Debby Herbenick, author of "Yes Your Kid: What Parents Need to Know About Teens and Sex." They talk about access to porn, social media, and when your three-year-old wanks at daycare. A woman and her best friend went to a party and used some undisclosed substances. The friend then told the caller she was in love with her and that they should get married someday. The caller is intrigued, but she's already married! Was the friend serious? Should she risk her marriage? Was her friend rolling on Molly and would have declared her love to a toaster? Declare your love to us. Q@Savage.Love 206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep. Helix is offering 25% off all mattress orders AND A FREE BEDROOM BUNDLE for our listeners in honor of Cyber Monday! The bundle includes 2 free pillows as well as a set of sheets and a mattress protector. Go to Helix Sleep.com/SAVAGE and use code HELIXPARTNER25. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:04.7	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.4	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:22.9	A little personal news.
0:24.9	Five months after Rotator Cuff surgery, I am back on my bike again with my doctor's
0:30.7	permission.
0:32.0	I don't know where you listen to podcasts.
0:34.1	I don't know where you're hearing the sound of my voice right now.
0:35.9	But riding my bike is my
0:37.7	favorite place to listen to shows because I can concentrate. I'm not tempted to open Twitter and
0:44.8	start scrolling while I'm listening. If you listen on your bike too, maybe you've had this experience.
0:50.3	You're riding along. The show you wanted to listen to ends. A new one starts. And the new one isn't an episode of a show you were planning to listen to, but you're on your bike and you don't want to stop. So you go ahead and listen to that show you weren't planning to listen to. And then you wind up learning something kind of amazing. That happened to me today. I was listening to the Ezra Klein show. and man, the series Ezra Klein has done over the last
1:12.3	seven weeks on the Israelis and the Palestinians deserves all the podcasting Pulitzer's.
1:18.6	Anyway, Klein's show ends, and a History Extra podcast about astronomy begins, and I couldn't give a
1:24.8	shit about astronomy, but I didn't want to pull over and change shows.
1:28.5	So I listened to the interview on History Extra with science historian James Hannam,
1:33.5	author of how the earth became around, all about astronomy.
1:36.9	And eventually during the interview, he began to talk about the Big Bang theory.
1:41.5	And I learned something from Hanam that I didn't know before. But he didn't coin the words the Big Bang theory, and I learned something from Hannam that I didn't know before.
1:45.7	But he didn't coin the words the Big Bang. That was done by somebody who didn't believe him.
1:52.4	A chap called Fred Hoyle, who was an English astronomer, and he thought this idea was
1:57.9	completely crazy, and he coined the term Big Bang to try and mock it.
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