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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 882

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 19 September 2023

⏱️ 44 minutes

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Summary

We start the show with two ass-tastic calls! A domme woman has a pet boy who wants to eat things out of her butt. He suggests licorice. Any ideas for safe food items to be served out the back? And, another woman jokingly asked her husband to eat the dried mango slices he so adores off her ass. When he complied, she discovered that she really, really liked it. How can she get him to keep doing it, even though she knows it’s terribly weird?  A lovely, curvy woman in Paris can’t find men to date her because of an anti-fat bias amongst French men. Should she move to another city?  Our guest this week is Tawny Lara. She is an advice columnist better known as “The Sober Sexpert” and author of Dry Humping: A Guide to Dating, Relating, and Hooking Up Without the Booze. She and Dan talk about the massive brain hack it takes to get clean and discover sex/dating without alcohol. A little of this conversation is on the Micro, and all of it is on the Magnum.  And, a sugar baby wonders if she should ask her much older sugar daddy to get a face lift.  We just can’t make this stuff up.  Q@Savage.Love     206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by Feeld, a dating app where the open-minded can meet the like-minded. Download Feeld for free, and get access to a free month of Majestic Membership when you go to feeld.co/savage

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

0:04.9

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.4

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. On May 31st in 2018, a new production of Matt Crowley's

0:26.9

1968 hit play, The Boys in the Band, opened at the booth theater on Broadway. The Broadway

0:33.5

revival of Boys in the Band ran until August 11th, eight shows a week, every week,

0:37.9

for 10 or 12 weeks.

0:39.7

If you don't know the show, it's a famous and really important piece of theater about a

0:44.0

group of gay friends living in Manhattan before Stonewall.

0:47.4

It was in 1968, this incredibly searing and realistic portrait of gay life.

0:53.8

When the revival opened in 2018, it showed us how

0:56.8

far we've come, and it showed us what those who seek to push gay people back into the closet

1:02.1

want to return us to. Lives warped and destroyed by shame. I saw the production. It was amazing,

1:09.1

an all-star cast, all openly gay actors playing the boys in the band,

1:14.2

Zachary Quinto, Jim Parsons, Andrew Rannels,

1:16.9

directed by a gay man, Joe Mantello.

1:19.1

And it was amazing.

1:21.8

And you don't have to take my word for it.

1:23.2

Won the 2018 Tony Award for Best Revival of a Play.

1:27.8

Anyway, I have a point to make, a relevant point to something in the news right now,

1:31.8

but a little bit more about the show first.

1:33.9

Very early in the show, one of the boys in the band, Donald, stripped naked and took a shower,

1:39.6

live on stage.

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