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Savage Lovecast Episode 866

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 23 May 2023

⏱️ 48 minutes

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Summary

A gay man is simultaneously weirded out and turned on by using the word “daddy” with his boyfriend. Should he stop immediately?  A woman’s husband cheated on her and it breaks her heart. She can’t divorce him because she would get deported. How can she stay married and stay sane for the next three years when she can become a legal citizen?  On the Magnum, we take a deep dive into the freaky, freaky world of the animal kingdom with zoologist and best-selling author Lucy Cooke. Her book “Bitch: On the Female of the Species” offers plenty of Lovecast fodder. She and Dan discuss the blurry, complicated connection between sex & gender, how science is riddled with cultural bias, and a ton of animal fun facts. (Some of you sub fellas are going to want to be reincarnated as an angler fish.)  And, a woman new to her very small town just ended a 2 month relationship. Her ex’s best friend swooped in and invited her to join him in a threesome. She wants to! The couple is hot! But would this make her a bad ex? Would it make the guy a terrible friend?  Q@Savage.Love  206-302-2064 This episode is brought to you by the Meridian Trimmer, the very best tool to trim your body hair. Go to MeridianGrooming.com and use the code SAVAGE for an exclusive 15% off.  This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase. This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at Savage. Love.

0:05.0

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.4

while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. A lot went down in the last week.

0:23.6

A lot went down in the last week.

0:25.9

There's a lot I could say about everything that happened in the last week.

0:30.1

That guy who makes his wife fly in coach with their two teenage kids while he flies in

0:34.0

first to Paris.

0:35.6

That letter in the ethicist that we all saw after went viral.

0:38.9

Yeah, that woman needs to divorce that guy.

0:42.8

The LA Dodgers, disinviting the sisters of perpetual indulgence from their pride night,

0:46.7

proving what we all kind of suspected about those corporate pride nights all along.

0:52.2

And then right wingers absolutely losing their minds because two of the

0:56.0

women on four of the swimsuit issue covers of Sports Illustrated swimsuit issue weren't teenage

1:02.3

girls. Conservatives took to the internet to complain. They were seriously worried. Megan

1:08.4

Kelly said this. She was worried that teenage boys would have nothing to masturbate to, which is adorable.

1:18.5

Because as if, as if magazines, as if anyone has masturbated looking at a magazine in the last 20 years. People don't even read magazines anymore.

1:30.9

More anti-trans legislation in more red states, anti-choice legislation moving in those same red states.

1:38.6

Ciswomen, please note, the assholes passing laws to protect cis women and girls from trans women, those exact same

1:44.7

assholes passing those laws turn around two minutes later and attack cis women and girls.

1:52.0

Nebraska, here's the headline.

1:53.2

Nebraska legislature votes to fold abortion ban into bill banning trans health care

1:58.6

for minors.

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