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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 854

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Society & Culture, Sexuality, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 7 March 2023

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

A woman masturbates in her sleep. Although she’s currently single, she worries about times when she has to share a room with family or friends. Should she warn them?  A woman’s sister plans to gallivant off to Texas to meet an online lover for the first time, on his rural cattle ranch, for some no-strings-attached BDSM sex. What could go wrong? The caller plans to slip an air tag in her luggage, and hope for the best.  On the Magnum, Dan brings back anal surgeon Dr. Evan Goldstein. In his practice at Bespoke Surgical, he sees it all: Fistulas. Glands. Fissures. And now you get to hear all about it! Too many doctors dismiss medical problems associated with anal sex, so Dan and the good doctor discuss ways to validate anal health practices. He and Dan both frown on numbing lubes. And the debate is on: spit or lube?  A man has been married for 20 years. Both he and his wife are bi, but she is no longer interested in sex with him. She has a girlfriend, he has a boyfriend. She has suggested he move in to his boyfriend’s house and that her girlfriend moves in to their house. Can their marriage survive this?  Foria is an all natural health & sexual wellness company with product lines using the power of plant actives & CBD to effectively enhance intimacy, sexual pleasure, daily wellbeing, and relief from discomfort. Get 20% off your first order by visiting ForiaWellness.com/Savage This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get $20% off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE. This episode is brought to you by Squarespace. They make it easy to build a website or blog. Give it a whirl at Squarespace.com/Savage and if you want to buy it, use the code Savage for a 10% off your first purchase.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at Savage. Love.

0:04.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.3

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. So, the governor of Tennessee, Bill Lee, signed that state's anti-drag bill

0:28.5

last week. It is now a crime punishable by up to six years in prison for repeat offenses

0:33.7

to do drag anywhere a child might see you in Tennessee, even in Nashville, where every day

0:40.1

children can watch entire bachelorette parties puke off the backs of party tractors rolling

0:45.5

up and down city streets. This new law could also make it illegal for a trans person to leave the

0:50.9

house dressed in their own clothing. The law is ambiguous in how to enforce the law, whether raid drag bars to make sure everyone in them is over 21,

1:00.0

or harass trans people seen in public, or to do spot genital checks on, I guess, everybody

1:06.0

to make sure some passing trans person didn't slip out of the house undetected.

1:10.0

That's going to be left up to

1:11.5

local police departments in Tennessee, which all but guarantees that the law will be used to

1:17.2

harass trans people in public and drag performers in clubs. This bill, as I pointed out at the top

1:24.1

of last week's show, this clearly unconstitutional law was signed by

1:30.1

Bill Lee, who also just signed a monstrous law, criminalizing gender affirming care for minors.

1:36.4

And Bill Lee once appeared in drag in public at a school and, boy, oh boy, girl, oh girl. Governor Lee lee she does not like being asked about what she

1:48.3

done did in 1977 at a press event the governor was confronted with that photo and he called any

1:56.3

comparison between the drag show bill and a yearbook snapshot, ridiculous.

2:01.5

What a ridiculous, ridiculous question that is.

2:05.1

Conflating something like that to sexualized entertainment in front of children, which is a very

2:12.0

serious subject.

2:13.5

Okay, it's all harmless hijinks when they do it.

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