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Savage Lovecast Episode 847

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 17 January 2023

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

A woman remembers with shame how she reacted when her then-boyfriend came out to her as bisexual. She hasn’t talked to him in 9 years and wants to apologize. Should she? How? For you sci-fi pervs, what happens to the “eggs” that get deposited with an ovipositor dildo? On the Magnum, Dan chats with Samantha Cole, senior editor for Vice Media, about her new book “How Sex Changed The Internet And The Internet Changed Sex.” They discuss ancient history of the internet, how furries built the web, Fosta/Sesta and a ton more. And, a trans man got herpes from a pre-transition hook-up. Now when he discloses his herpes status first thing on Grindr, men reject him. But when he puts it at the end of his profile, they get mad. Should he disclose at all? [email protected]. 206-302-2064 Dipsea This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage. Talkspace This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.

0:23.1

So, the question of the weekend was,

0:25.5

was Hugh Grant fucking with us? Or what? Hugh Grant, British film star,

0:30.4

male lead in pretty much every romantic comedy made in the 1990s,

0:34.5

and the 2000s, Notting Hill, love actually about a boy for weddings in a funeral,

0:38.4

nine months since in Sensibility, I could go on Hugh Grant, who played the lovable shy,

0:44.7

bumbling, but hot English guy with floppy hair that women dream about, or are socialized to dream about,

0:51.1

with the occasional foray into playing the cad as granted in Bridget Jones' diary. Hugh Grant,

0:56.7

that Hugh Grant told an interviewer over the weekend that he's into SNM.

1:11.5

Hugh Grant said that into a microphone standing next to Chris Pine, who was beaming at him,

1:17.1

while they were on the red carpet together at Comic Con in San Diego,

1:20.0

where they were promoting a new movie they're both in called Dungeons and Dragons,

1:24.2

Honor Among Thieves. That movie is based on the popular role-playing game,

1:28.2

of course, Dungeons and Dragons. I mean, obviously, a game also known as D&D,

1:33.6

which is not to be confused with SNM, which one of Grant's other co-stars, Michele Rodriguez,

1:39.6

said Grant regularly confused D&D with SNM while they were making the film.

1:44.1

So, was Grant telling us the truth? Grant has a wicked sense of humor, as anyone who follows

1:51.6

him on Twitter knows, so he may have been joking. But joking doesn't mean he wasn't also telling the

1:57.4

truth. He could have been doing that thing, that thing people sometimes do, where they tell the truth

2:03.7

in the form of a joke. Someone admits to something publicly, maybe gets off on the admission,

2:07.8

but frames the admission as a joke, so they still have plausible deniability.

2:12.3

That is definitely a thing that kinky people have done. It's also a thing vanilla people do a lot.

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