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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 847

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.66.4K Ratings

🗓️ 17 January 2023

⏱️ 47 minutes

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Summary

A woman remembers with shame how she reacted when her then-boyfriend came out to her as bisexual. She hasn’t talked to him in 9 years and wants to apologize. Should she? How?  For you sci-fi pervs, what happens to the “eggs” that get deposited with an ovipositor dildo?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Samantha Cole, senior editor for Vice Media, about her new book “How Sex Changed The Internet And The Internet Changed Sex.” They discuss ancient history of the internet, how furries built the web, Fosta/Sesta and a ton more.  And, a trans man got herpes from a pre-transition hook-up. Now when he discloses his herpes status first thing on Grindr, men reject him. But when he puts it at the end of his profile, they get mad. Should he disclose at all?  Q@Savage.Love. 206-302-2064 Dipsea This episode is brought to you by Dipsea: an app full of hundreds of short, sexy audio stories designed by women for women. Get an extended 30 day free trial when you go to dipseastories.com/savage.  Talkspace This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.

0:04.7

If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,

0:14.3

well, there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast. So, the question of the weekend

0:26.0

Was Hugh Grant fucking with us or what?

0:28.7

Hugh Grant, British film star, male lead in pretty much every romantic comedy made in the 1990s

0:34.2

and the 2000s, Notting Hill, Love Actually About a Boy, Four Weddings and a Funeral,

0:38.5

Nine Months, Sense and Sensibility, I could go on.

0:42.1

Hugh Grant, who played the lovable, shy, bumbling, but hot English guy with floppy hair

0:47.3

that women dream about or are socialized to dream about.

0:51.2

With the occasional foray into playing The Cad, as Grant did in Bridget Jones' diary,

0:55.9

Hugh Grant, that Hugh Grant, told an interviewer over the weekend that he's into S&M.

1:02.5

Well, I've been heavily into S&M for, I don't know, 20 years now.

1:06.6

I think so long as you have, if you have safe words, it's fun.

1:11.7

Hugh Grant said that into a microphone standing next to Chris Pine, who was beaming at him.

1:16.9

While they were on the red carpet together at Comic Con and San Diego, where they were

1:20.5

promoting a new movie they're both in called Dungeons and Dragons, Honor Among Thieves.

1:25.8

That movie is based on the popular role-playing game, of course, Dungeons and Dragons.

1:29.8

I mean, obviously, a game also known as D&D, which is not to be confused with S&M,

1:35.9

which one of Grant's other co-stars, Michelle Rodriguez, said Grant regularly confused D&D with

1:42.6

S&M while they were making the film.

1:44.8

So, was Grant telling us the truth?

1:49.3

Grant has a wicked sense of humor, as anyone who follows him on Twitter knows, so he may

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