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Savage Lovecast

Savage Lovecast Episode 836

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.76.3K Ratings

🗓️ 1 November 2022

⏱️ 53 minutes

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Summary

Family drama ahoy! A married man is in a carefully constructed open relationship. But when his wife’s sister found out about it, she went ballistic and told the whole family. Now the caller is cut off from his in-laws, and never gets to see them. He and his wife are buying a house, and his in-laws want to pop over and check it out. Should he leave for a few hours and let them in? A queer woman has a crush on her tattoo artist. She knows the crush is in an open relationship, and that their partner is hot too. Would it be too forward to propose a three-way? On the Magnum, have you ever been broken up with via text? Have you ever dumped someone that way? Dan brings on comedian Allison Goldberg, creator of “How to Break Up By Text” to talk about this modern etiquette crisis. A gay man is in a happy relationship with his older boyfriend. But oh how he misses the orgies. His boyfriend isn’t interested in apps or bathhouses, or any such thing. He’s willing to pick someone up in a bar, but since they are both homebodies, it’s unlikely to happen. Is it ultimatum time? [email protected]. 206-302-2064 Read Dan’s column at Savage.Love. Helix Sleep This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE. Talkspace This episode is brought to you by Talkspace- online therapy that makes it easy to get extra mental health support. For $100 off your first month, go to Talkspace.com and use the offer code Savage.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.

0:23.4

The New York Times had a story this weekend and they run up to Halloween.

0:26.7

Hadline How Horror Stories helped us cope with real life and worst case scenarios.

0:32.6

And reading from the piece, people who watched scary movies involving depictions of mass chaos,

0:36.8

such as alien invasions and apocalypsees, said they felt more mentally prepared,

0:41.6

or chaotic shit, like the recent pandemic, than people who didn't watch those films.

0:47.4

Nancy, while I was reading that story, I was thinking of the love cast.

0:51.7

Oh yeah, what were you thinking?

0:53.1

I was thinking, you know, in the same way that this story goes into how people who listen to murder

0:57.3

podcasts about serial killers feel better prepared to, I guess, spot a serial killer and run away

1:04.3

than people who don't, who have less anxiety about being killed by a serial killer.

1:08.0

I think people listen to Sex Advice podcasts and read Sex Advice columns like Savage Love

1:14.0

for the same reason some people watch horror movies.

1:17.4

It's because you kind of, you know, you get run through a lot of worst case scenarios.

1:22.0

And then you know how to respond in real life if you find yourself in a situation that you

1:26.4

read about or heard about on Savage Love Cast.

1:29.0

So now I know exactly what to do if my husband leaves little jizzy surprises all over the couch.

1:34.0

Because you heard about that on Savage Love Cast.

1:36.2

Yes, now I know to say, husband, please stop doing that.

1:41.0

And you now know that if you're dating a doctor and they don't know what a hymen is,

1:45.9

yeah, and they're a lady doctor who doesn't know about lady parts somehow,

1:50.1

which they don't cover in medical school very extensively, but still that you shouldn't

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