Savage Lovecast Episode 821

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Relationships, Sexuality, Society & Culture, Health & Fitness

4.6 • 6.4K Ratings

🗓️ 19 July 2022

⏱️ 52 minutes

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Summary

A bisexual woman came out to her conservative mother, and amazingly, she didn’t flip out. But she did beg the caller to keep it secret from the rest of the family. Mommy thinks there should be white pride parades. The caller’s girlfriend is Black. What could go wrong? A transman likes violent sex, almost crossing the line from consensual non-consent into rape. His wife worries that he will resent her for objecting. Therapy for all! On the Magnum, anxious polyamorists rejoice! Our guest this week is Lola Phoenix, author of The Anxious Person's Guide to Non-Monogamy. She and Dan talk about the societal pressure non-monogamous folks contend with, and how communication is elevated to an art when you have a bevy of metamours circling around. A woman is enjoying a short term relationship with a man. She wants to try dom/sub action, specifically being worshiped as a goddess. He’s into it! So what’s the catch? He has erectile dysfunction and won’t get hard during this kind of play. His visual arousal is key to her feeling adored. What’s a goddess to do? She did the right thing. She called 206-302-2064 or she recorded her question and sent it to Q@Savage.Love This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE. This episode is brought to you by Doordash. Get breakfast, lunch, dinner and more delivered from your favorite restaurants right to your doorstep with one easy click. To get 50% off your first order of up to $15 value, use promo code SAVAGE at checkout when you spend $12 or more. Terms apply. This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter “Savage” for postage, a digital scale, and a 4 week trial.

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0:00.0	You're listening to the micro version of the Savage Lovecast at savage.love.
0:05.0	If you're stuck in a relationship quandary, or if you're looking for sexual harmony,
0:14.4	while there's nothing you can't ask on the Savage Lovecast.
0:23.6	A youth pastor in Wisconsin was found guilty of five felony counts last week.
0:28.8	Five felony counts of what? I'm not going to say, but I will say that they're exactly
0:34.5	what you think they are. A youth pastor in Texas arrested last week for online
0:39.0	solicitation. I'm not going to say what he was soliciting for or whether the person he was soliciting
0:45.6	that from was old enough to drink or vote or drive because you know or you guessed and guessed correctly. A youth pastor in rural Ohio was arrested
0:57.4	last week. All this happened in just the last week for exactly what you might think he was
1:02.1	arrested for, as was another youth pastor in Wisconsin, and a youth pastor and his wife in North York,
1:08.1	Ontario. And a youth pastor in Florida wanted to mix things up,
1:11.9	keep us on our toes. He got arrested last week, but not for felony assault of a child or soliciting
1:17.6	a minor or statutory rape. Nope. Youth pastor Tyler Earl Etheridge got arrested in Colorado
1:24.9	Springs for taking part in the January 6th insurrection at the U.S. Capitol
1:28.9	in Washington, D.C. From the Christian Post, Etheridge helped remove fencing before entering the
1:35.5	building. He posted several videos of himself on social media, documenting his actions in one,
1:40.8	he said, I'm probably going to lose my job as a youth pastor after this.
1:45.8	Well, we'll see.
1:47.1	There are people out there who didn't lose their precious youth pastor gigs after doing a lot worse.
1:52.6	And if you're wondering, listeners, why it took the FBI more than a year to arrest Etheridge,
1:57.4	it was because they only got the tip from someone at the Bible college,
2:01.8	Etheridge was attending in Colorado Springs. They only got that tip last week. So, yeah,
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