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Savage Lovecast Episode 819

Savage Lovecast

Dan Savage

Society & Culture, Health & Fitness, Sexuality, Relationships

4.7 • 6.3K Ratings

🗓️ 5 July 2022

⏱️ 50 minutes

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Summary

Look out, it’s a nibbler! A woman hates the way her new boyfriend kisses her. He nibbles on her lips even though she tells him to knock it off. Is this a worthy reason to dump him? A married gay man and his husband are newly polyamorous. But the caller wants absolutely nothing to do with his husband’s boyfriend. The boyfriend keeps making friendly overtures, like inviting the caller to parties. Can the caller maintain a social wall keeping invaders out? Should he? On the Magnum, learn a thing or two about monkeypox with Dr. Ina Park. Dr. Park, author of Strange Bedfellows: Adventures in the Science, History and Surprising Secrets of STDs, explains how and why this new virus is something for gay men to pay particular attention to. Meanwhile, a mid 50s woman keeps scoring and getting ghosted by much younger men. Is there something she’s doing wrong? Or right? [email protected]. 206-302-2064 Support for the Savage Lovecast is brought to you by MANSCAPED™ , the best in men’s below-the-waist grooming. MANSCAPED™ offers precision-engineered tools for your family jewels. MANSCAPED™ just launched their fourth generation trimmer, The Lawn Mower® 4.0. Get 20% off and free worldwide shipping with the code: Lovecast at manscaped.com. This episode is brought to you by Framebridge. Framebridge makes it easier and more affordable than ever to frame your favorite things – without ever leaving the house. Get 15% off your first order at Framebrige.com when you use the code SAVAGE. This episode is brought to you by Helix Sleep-the best mattress for your individualized comfort. Right now, get up to $200 off ALL mattress orders at HelixSleep.com/SAVAGE.

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0:00.0

You're listening to the microversion of the Savage Love cast at Savage.loaf.

0:23.2

Polysexuals, those are people who experience attraction to people of multiple genders.

0:28.7

Polysexuals are not to be confused with omnisexuals. Those are people who experience attraction to people

0:34.7

of all genders who are not to be confused with bisexuals. People who experience attraction to two

0:40.7

or more genders who are not to be confused with homosexuals. Those are people who don't adhere to

0:45.5

sexual orientation labels and, quote, tend to resist conventional methods of categorizing sexuality,

0:52.4

which is why they needed their own category. And, of course, polysexual people are not to be

0:56.1

confused with polyamorous people who have more than one committed romantic partner. A polyamorous

1:02.5

person can be polysexual and a polysexual person can be polyamorous, but not all people who are

1:07.5

one kind of poly are both kinds of poly. I learned all this reading a 10,000 word explainer on

1:14.0

polysexuality published on the website Quirty last week. What is polysexual unpacking the term?

1:21.7

There was a whole section in that unpacker. I'm the myths and misconceptions people tend to have

1:27.1

about polysexual people, which is kind of hilarious and mind bending when you think about it, because

1:33.8

it's actually hard to have a misconception about something you literally have no concept of,

1:38.8

because you've never heard of it, because someone made it up two minutes ago, or because it's not a

1:44.3

thing, or maybe it is a thing, but it was already a thing, and that thing already had a name, or two

1:49.9

names. In this case, by ampan, and we didn't need another one, or another two, one really easy way

1:58.0

to tell the polysexual is just another word for bisexual, is by reading the myths and misconceptions

2:03.6

section of this unpacker at Quirty. By some non-miraculous non-coincidence, all those myths and

2:10.8

misconceptions about polysexuals are the same myths and myths conceptions people tend to have about

2:15.5

bisexuals, that they always cheat, that they're hypersexual, that they're really gay. Yeah, what's

2:21.1

not true about bisexuals also isn't true about polysexuals, because polysexuals are bisexuals

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